My boyf i love him to bits but we've only bin together 6 months and he practically lives at my mum's wit me already. Everytime we hv sex he says he wants to get me pregnant everytime!!! And now he's getting my name tatooed on his wrist and wants me to have hiss too..... what do you think to what ive said?
2006-10-11 04:16:57 · 11 answers · asked by lti25rny 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
wow. possessive compulsion is not cool! this thing's gonna turn out BAD. you should break this off.
2006-10-11 04:20:18 · answer #1 · answered by Stormy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not too sure how old the two of you are or your financial situations but I would advise that you proceed with caution. If you are living at home that tells me that you financial insecure right now and having a baby would not help you gain the financial independence that you need. You are only six months into this relationship, unmarried and moving way too fast. As far as the tatoo issue goes I do not think it would be wise at this time to do so....wait until you know that your relationship is going to be a permanent thing because the tatoo is a permant fixture on your body. I would tell your boyfriend the same thing and ask him to take things more slowly. Good luck.
2006-10-11 04:25:38 · answer #2 · answered by Stacy H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's would be a little freaky if that was to happen to me I would say give it a little more time with the pregnancy I don't know how old you are but if you still live with your mom I'm assuming you are in your teens. So being pregnant as a teen its not a easy task. About the tatoo hell no he is your boyfriend that's it. I have a husband and I don't have his name tatoo to my skin the only guy name I will ever tatoo to my skin is my baby boys name if I ever have one. So be smart about it, don't fall for the first guy that say I Love You Forever and Ever. I had to learn that the hard way. Best Of Luck
2006-10-11 04:26:02 · answer #3 · answered by Cares 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, off, if he wants to get your name perminantly put onto his body, then let him. But don't do the same yourself. You can't get him to not do it, but never ever ever get anybody's name tattooed onto your body!
And about the thing with him getting you pregnant, that is for you to decide. Yes, he may like the idea of one day having children with you, but is he really ready and mature enough for that now? And most importantly, are YOU ready for it? It is your body, and your decision, not his.
And another thing...Does his need to be close to you bother you? Do you sometimes want him to just leave you alone? If so, then maybe it is better if you tell him that he needs to go back to his own place a few nights out of the week. Distance makes the heart grow fonder, and what alot of guys don't seem to realize, is that if they don't give us girls our space, then their fear about loosing us might just come true. You can only tollerate a person for so long before you start to get a little bit irritated.
I deffinately would say that your boyfriend is insecure about something, and I would deffinately suggest having a nice long talk with him. Tell him that you don't want to have his kid YET, and deffinately discuss this tattoo thing.
Yeah, it is a nice gesture, but it is your body, and the tattoo that you get doesn't have to mean something to anyone else besides yourself. And like I stated above, never get someone's name. A tattoo is perminant, and even if you are able to get it removed, you will always have the scar. And having a tattoo removed is more painful than getting one done.
If you don't want his name on your body, then don't let him talk you into doing it.
Also, I don't know why, but some guys see a girl getting their name tattooed onto their body as a way of...Branding them as their property. Its odd, but true.
2006-10-12 01:10:05 · answer #4 · answered by xxtorturedinnocentsxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all if he tells u that he wants to get u prego when u have sex get on birth control. U should start to distance yourself from him. go out with friend and let him know that u need space. IT sounds like he is very possesive of you. some girls like that some girls hate that.
2006-10-11 04:20:19 · answer #5 · answered by dunebugger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like this could lead to some serious problems. be careful, you have your whole life ahead of you. it would be a mistake to bring a baby into the world under these conditions.
2006-10-11 04:24:46 · answer #6 · answered by wisdom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys want to get girls preg. becuase they think that way they are tied down to them. In my case that wasn't achieved. I think he needs to slow down and take things a step at a time.
2006-10-11 06:28:08 · answer #7 · answered by Mermaid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you should be getting a bodygaurd or restraining order soon.
And please...don't let him impregnate you. You'll be sorry.
2006-10-11 04:22:21 · answer #8 · answered by losenmyass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are, but you need to get on some birth control asap.
2006-10-11 06:16:40 · answer #9 · answered by j1a2il 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it just sounds like he's taking things way too fast. he needs to slow down!
2006-10-11 04:18:35 · answer #10 · answered by mighty_power7 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋