2006-10-11 04:15:55 · 20 answers · asked by raghavendra.l.k r 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Other - Arts & Humanities
Think positive
forgive others mistake.
you urself dont commit mistakes.
be happy and cheerful
help always the needy and the poor.
dont get jealous of other peoples popularity
dont envy others
talk frank.
dont hide any thing with anybody and
be truthful to yourself and also to others.
THEN U WILL FIND SUCCESS IN YOUR LIFE
2006-10-11 17:58:54 · answer #1 · answered by swetlana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How to build a postitive attitude... Here is what worked for me in those especially hard teenage years:
Surround yourself with positive people. Make good, cheery friends. Listen to upbeat, positve music.(it is proven that rock is a comon cause of depression, aggression, and bad attitudes) Watch funny, uplifting movies. Here are some good ones: "My big Fat Greek Wedding", " Dreamer".. etc.. Having a positive attitude means that you are positive.
In my teen years, I tried my best to be positive by not defying authority. This was a no no in my family. Be respectful, modest, and happy.
Some other ways od developing a positive attitude are spending time with children and elderly. Play card games. Bird watch. get some sunshine.
Read a good book.. The Bible, beleive it or not, has some great passages about positivity. Proverbs and Psalms have some GREAT refferences. read Job.. He was persecuted to the extreem, and still had a good attitude, and didn't blame God for the things that went wrong in his life.
Exercise. This is great for opening your mind , and broadening your horizens. Take a walk, now that it is fall, and the leaves are truning colors, and the weather is cool.
Listen to classical music. Play an instrumnt, such as piano. Express your feelings in a journal or through creative writing, such as poetry. This will help you to write down what is going on in your life, and then you can look back at it later on, and see how you have improved on positivity, and HOW and What aspects you need to improve on.
Art. Art is helpful.. Go to museums.. Paint a picture.
Eat some chocolate.. This will make you happy!!
2006-10-11 05:03:28 · answer #2 · answered by Cyber Spacer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To build positive attitude its very important to have the company of people with positive attitude. Because even when u r thinking something negative they will show u the positivity in the same thing. They will train u in such a manner that u will think only positive. If u can't find such people u can take help of any psychologist.
Watch good movies, comedy shows, read good books, see the beautiful things around GOD has given to us and try to enjoy every moment of ur life.
Always think that whatever happens, happen for the best.
2006-10-11 04:26:08 · answer #3 · answered by indu_kain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no set formula for building a good attitude. Just do things the best way you can and you should be able to get good results, and good results inevitably will help you build a positive attitude. I must warn you - DON'T TRY MEDICATION as suggested by someone above. If medicines had been the answer, then nobody would've asked this question.
2006-10-11 04:28:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set attainable goals and achive them then look to the future as a better time where more goals can be set and met. Do not dwell on negative thoughts but positive ones. Ginkobiloba and St. John's Wort are vitamins that help promote a positive attitude works for me. Remember if God is not in your plans you plan to fail.
2006-10-11 04:27:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read 'you can win' by shiv kera. This can be ur initial step to build ur positive attitude. secondly, have a good surrounding. Bcoz ur positive and negative attitude depends upon ur friends only. Even a wrong person can become gentle by having good friends. Thirdly, have a nice smile in ur face. Thats it!!!!!! U can enjoy ur life with a great positive attitude.
2006-10-11 04:46:03 · answer #6 · answered by jerry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A boy in a room full of toys weeps and says," If I play with the toys they will break". Another kid in a room full of horse-droppings says, " Maybe there is a Pony for me here". Get the point?
That's positive attitude for you !!
2006-10-13 21:33:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Practise at searching for positive side of all things, ...
taking care to look at positive rich things when we are low in spirits, and mustering courage with negative rich things only when our spirits are high.
2006-10-11 05:19:11 · answer #8 · answered by Spiritualseeker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of nail and a good hammer. When you think positively deliberately, you are acknowledging a negative thought.
2006-10-11 04:18:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've tried, even gone to therapy which was a temporary solution, now I just live with the fact that I'm horribly cynical and judge mental..I just keep it to myself for the most part now.
2006-10-11 04:17:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋