ok so i got a call from my docter yesterday..........?

Question

ok im 13 and almost 4 months preg and my doctor told me that he found out what the dead thing next to my baby was he told me it was supposed to be a TWIN.........he did exams and i think that how he found out......so my question is do u guys have any idea why it died and the other baby stayed alive??????PLEASE I WANT TO KNOW

PLEASE NO RUDE ANSWERS AND NO TELLING ME TO GET AN ABORTION OR ADOPTION

Answer 1

multiple pregnancies are high risk with more chances of something going wrong. they could've had twin to twin syndrome. the one demised could've had defective chomosomes. feel blessed that you have one healthy child on the way. dont dwell too much on it sweetie, usually there are no explanations. are they going to do anything to remove the dead fetus? if not, he probably poses no threat to the live one. he obviously was too big to be reabsorbed by the placenta, but now that you are aware, at least you wont be totally blind sided at the birth when one is still born. i'll pray for you but please just give it to God and move on for the healthy one's sake. good luck to you.

Answer 2

Did you ask the doctor why? I don't know how anyone here could know. Sometimes this just happens and it is very sad. But oftentimes they never find out why.

Miscarriages are often caused by fetal defect. In other words, there was something developmentally wrong with the fetus and it could not survive.

All you can do is **eat as healthfully as possible** (orange juice, lots of fruits and vegetables, whole grains, dairy products, eggs, meat or other protein foods).

Take your prenatal vitamins every day and AVOID junk food (chips, ice cream, candy, cookies, french fries, etc.). Also avoid all smoking, soda pop, coffee, tea, iced tea, alcohol, drugs, and over-the-counter medications.

Daily walks for exercise and plenty of sleep at night help, too. It is especially important that you eat as healthfully as possible because as a very young teenager, your body is still growing too. So you need extra fuel and extra nutrients for you and for the baby.

Good luck.

Answer 3

sometimes the fetus is not viable meaning that it was unable to continue to grow and so it stopped everything this is not uncommon and does not mean you did anything wrong. The body really treat a pregnancy like a an infection it ecapsultes it until the body can find a way to expel it sometimes the body shuts down the blood flow to the area to try to expel the fetus as soon as possible. there are many reasons this happens but it is NOT your fault. Good luck. stay in touch reaper out.........

Answer 4

From the moment you conceive, up untill you are at least 3-4 months into your pregnancy, you can very easily mis-carry. Wether it's one or two babies. That's the nature of a womans body. Especially if this is your first pregnancy, this is very common in woman, if this is your first time around. Nobody knows why it happens, it just does. Maybe your body can't handle 2 babies, only one. Anyway good luck!!

Answer 5

This sometimes happens hunni and NO i do not think its your age so plz do not think it is. ( this happens to older woman aswell)
my friend was pregnant with twins but sadly only 1 made it but she has a beautiful healthy baby boy now.
you are still blessed to have 1 baby. try to enjoy the rest of your pregnancy .
the reason the other baby didn't survive may never be known sorry to say they may just say these things happen.

i hope the rest of your pregnancy goes OK yes it may be tough coz you are young but you are going to get a wonderful baby at the end and trust me its worth it.

your in my thoughts

Answer 6

Only your doctor would be able to explain why it died but my guess is your body isnt ready for a child no less having 2 so it aborted one of them so your body can take care of the other one better.

Answer 7

things like this just happen and usually there is no way of finding out why. and as for the people who are telling you that you are to young and blaming your parents, her parents had nothing to do with it she had sex and got prwegnant not them. you are young but with support from family you can do this i did. and as far as the father going to jail if he's your age he won't. if he's an adult then he should go to jail. but you shouldnt concern yourself with that stuff right now. focus on you and that baby and get into someclasses to know what to expect in labor and learn how to care for a child good luck and remember you can do this lots of us have.

Answer 8

you poor poor sweet heart. Sometimes these things happen because the baby would have been born severely ill. You need as much help and advice as you can get. Good luck and God Bless. X

Answer 9

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Answer 10

hi. first of all you are too young and your body cannot support the babies. but i have learned that when are 2 babies, one of them gets the other bay's power. and sometimes he gets all the other's power and the other dies. it especially succeeds when one of the twins is a boy and one is a girl.