Too all those people who asked if i cant find a man...... i can actually coz i am a very attractive woman, what i need 2 know is y should i look out there when i have found someone rite under my nose and 4 ur info we dont want kids 2gether, he does have a daughter of 2
I know that i will never find another man like him so y should i even bother looking for someone else........i want him and i cant just switch off the feelings i have for him bcoz sum people think i am sick, that is ur opinion and everyone is entilted 2 there own opinions in life.
2006-10-11 03:50:00 · 15 answers · asked by lovey24 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hark... can anyone else hear duelling banjoes
2006-10-11 03:52:59 · answer #1 · answered by jonti 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No matter what you end up doing with this situation there is a moral stigma that comes with that relationship . You have to weigh that when you consider going forward and what impact it will it will leave not only on the rest of the family but most importantly on the child.
2006-10-11 11:24:27 · answer #2 · answered by louis g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never read the beginning of the saga but I'm going to assume that you're in love with your cousin.
My initial though... eww.
But after some consideration... hey, why not? If you love the guy, you shouldn't let that stand in your way. Genetically speaking, we are only 12.5% related to our first cousins. You share 50% of your genetic makeup with your parents/siblings and 25% with your aunts/uncles. 12.5% isn't that much when you think about it. If the eww isn't a factor for you, then I don't see why you shouldn't take advantage of what love has to offer. If you do decide to have children though, it would probably be best to consult a doctor first so you can do everything in your power to avoid birth defects. Best of luck to you!
2006-10-11 10:57:22 · answer #3 · answered by deepwaters05 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
wow! well...i know people who are married to their own cousin it worked out great for them...but honestly i do think it is warped sorry just my opinion....but if you love him & he loves you whatever you think....but i would consider trying to fall inlove with someone who is not a family member 1st & if all else fails then so be it i guess
2006-10-11 10:56:54 · answer #4 · answered by yahooligan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you really want to ruin this child's life??? if you hook up with this guy and someone finds out he is your cousin, they might take the child away from him because they might see him as a threat since he has no problem sleeping with family memebers.
2006-10-11 10:53:22 · answer #5 · answered by mickey g 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your a very ******* sick human being. incest is ******* nasty. why dont u get ur ******* self a clue. hes family for a ******* reason. and if it was normal to **** ur cuz. or even date him., then we all would do it. but my advise is get a fuckign clue. and u do care what we think. if u didnt u wouldent have posted this sick *** question....why did i even wasite my time telling u..
2006-10-11 10:54:39 · answer #6 · answered by Baby D 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are right. You can't control your feelings, but you can control acting on them. Why put yourself in this situation? Move on with your life and find someone who is not kin to you.
2006-10-11 10:53:28 · answer #7 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Marrying your cousin is perfectly legal in the UK. I have no problem with that at all. I would not marry any of my cousins however, because they are all girls. Except one who is gay. If it is legal then what's the problem?
2006-10-11 10:52:14 · answer #8 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If yall sum kin den it iz kinda nasty but it'z not about us it'z about you and him so do what you want
2006-10-11 10:52:02 · answer #9 · answered by realchikk101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move to Alabama, its legal there and no one will know or care.
2006-10-11 10:53:39 · answer #10 · answered by salter 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋