..okay, it's like this, i'm feeling out of place with my friends and i think they are replacing me with another one of our friends, who we hated just last year..and one of our friends is (i think) avoiding me..what should, and what can i do to be "in" in my group of friends again...? and what's the limit i shouldn't cross to make them think i'm trying too hard?
2006-10-11 03:27:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Maybe you are trying too hard or it can be what you are doing is not appealing to them. Maybe you can come together as a group and discuss your differences openly, then move on from there.
2006-10-11 04:07:08 · answer #1 · answered by mrlynphilip 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is not you- it's them. As we grow older, our personalities change and so do our friends. It is a hard pill to swallow, but it's true. DO NOT change yourself for nobody. If your friends feel that they have a problem with you, they should discuss it with you- not about you. Continue to make new friends and enjoy yourself. You shouldn't have to go out of your way to please people. Keep your head held up high and focus on the most important things in life. Talk to your friends and tell them how you really feel, but be open and honest about it. If they don't listen, at least you know who your true friends are. Do what you think is best for yourself. Best of luck.
2006-10-11 03:59:41 · answer #2 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
true friends will not kick you to the curb. if there was a problem they would have talk to you and not about you. you need to get to know yourself better and see that you can always meet new people to hang around with. Basically don't kiss no one @ss so they can be your friend. Just like marriage, friendship is 50/50. Hold your head high and MOVE ON!
2006-10-11 03:50:33 · answer #3 · answered by funoburgmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself don't ever change to make someone else happy or to fit in. Your just growing up. As we get older are personality's change and so do are friends.
2006-10-11 03:49:43 · answer #4 · answered by roni_lane81981 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not you- it's them. Don't do anything different. Don't beg them to be your friends. **** them! Go make some new friends. People change and grow for a reason.
2006-10-11 03:35:24 · answer #5 · answered by shondak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Become more comfortable with yourself...maybe you are growing apart...is that such a tragedy? Find new friends, don't be in such a rut.
2006-10-11 03:33:38 · answer #6 · answered by Joe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋