i got you now ok this it what i need to know I thinke I cant mack my wife HAPPY SEXULLY eny more she dos not whant it like she did can eny one please help
2006-10-11 03:23:46 · 8 answers · asked by jack_chase_car 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Do you look different from when you first met? Did you get bigger? Do you not make her feel special like you use to do? Do you make her feel sexy, by giving her compliments all the time? I ask these questions because it could be that she lost sexual attraction to you. But if you have not changed and you're still hot to her, then there is something going on with her confidence, She may not be feeling sex anymore and that can turn her away from wanting sex. Try romancing her again, you know light that fire again. And then it should start coming back.
2006-10-11 03:34:13 · answer #1 · answered by Curious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offence to anyone but some of those answers where terrible! Why would you ask men about what a women wants? Anyway! It is important to find out if your wife is saying your not sexy, or your moves are stale? I suggest trying a few things.
1.) go to walmart buy some candles and fake rose peddals and place them in you bed room, and if you have a master bath draw up a warm bubble bath and put some rose peddals on the bubbles, spead the rest of the rose peddals on the bed and on the floor. light the candles so there is a nice even glow in the bedroom and bath. DO NOT linger while she is in the bed room! DO NOT hint towards sex! just tell her you done it to make her feel special.
2.) cook a nice diner for her with roses on the table. You could even do #1 and while she is bathing start dinner.
3.) most women act like they are grossed out by there husbands masterbating however I read that it is truely because we are jealous. try masterbating next to her in bed, i mean whats the worst that could happen?
4.) **** her shes cutting you off no i don't think so, cut her off that really drives my sister crazy when her husband plays hard to get. Everytime she kisses him he acts like it is a chore and when she is dress naughty he tells her to go put on clothes lol i have no clue why but she says it litterally drives her crazy then they have the best sex ever! it's worth a try? Good luck! If all else fails then maybe you should jion a gym and take a few sex ed classes? Hell if i know, I've been married 7yrs and after three kids the sex is better then ever!
2006-10-11 06:13:00 · answer #2 · answered by number1bi7ch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your wife is right - you're not sexy any more! Look man,
you've got to get rid of the bulging tummy and fat thighs by
eating less food and more exercises in the gym room. Get into
shape quickly. Be more like Arnold S. - big muscular and sexy
body.
This way, you can attract her and both of you can enjoy the
sex better.
2006-10-11 04:13:55 · answer #3 · answered by steplow33 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was feeling that way with my hubby awhile back. Hes put on weight and just acted like he didint care about himself anymore. I feel like men can get too comfy after marriage, like no matter what happens to their body, we are just spose to accept it, cuz we're married. Women do this too.
This isnt how it should be. Both ppl need to take care of themselves. Stay as attractive to their partner as they can, it DOES help. Weight gain is usually the problem in so many marriages.
My hubby finally decided to diet and try to lose, and he has been suprising me with things. Being more romantic, kissing me more. It has helped alot.
2006-10-11 03:44:59 · answer #4 · answered by ~~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love her? Do you want to keep her? If so, then tease the hell out of her! Kiss the back of her neck! Rub her feet! Tell her how pretty she looks today! Just walk up and give her a big hug, and don't try to make it lead to sex! Once she realizes that's not all you're looking for, it will be all she wants!
2006-10-11 03:34:35 · answer #5 · answered by rebecca_sld 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely your wife feels that you are no longer sexy. You "sexed" her out during your courtship period and now she no longer cares about you or your needs. That's the way women are. They get what they want (your money or your property) then they dump you and move on to another sucker. Good Luck, Sucker.
2006-10-11 03:39:32 · answer #6 · answered by Dwayne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to SPELL, it will open up a bunch of new doors for you.
2006-10-11 04:05:49 · answer #7 · answered by buldawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kinda think it's really your grammer
2006-10-11 16:41:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋