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Question

I am a wife and I have a question for all you guys age 30 and over. When you guys have erections in your sleep, do you know that you are having them and do they always involve sexual dreams? Please serious responses only. My husband and I will make love and two hours later i his sleep he will be hard again. But when he is awake, if I want to fool around some more , he'll tell me he is not "****** and reloaded" not to be funny but, I was just wondering.

I'm not judging.....I like it. I'm not saying anything bad about it, i just wanted to kow if guys realized it or not an dif it had anything to do with dreams. I do take advantage of it because like i said, when were awake........I have no problem taking advantage of him, he has no prob with it either.

Answer 1

Happens to me too. I get them in my sleep, but I don't notice them unless my wife wakes me up to do what you do to your husband. Many times, my erections invlolve me needing to pee. This especially happens after we make love.

It's normal. Don't push your man too much. let him rest. His erection is probably because he's re-living the great moment he just had with you. Take it as a complement.

Many times, I like it if my wife puts her hand down my pants and starts rubbing me (not too vigorously, just in a teasing sort of way) while I am asleep. I'd think it's a fantasy of many men to wake up to that.

Answer 2

Well luv,

My hubby's sleep pattern is not normal; he has sleep disorders. He has told me he never really quite got "real" wet dreams ever in his life, but did have (and still does) have very erotic dreams which come very close (no pun intended!).

He is not concious of his erections when he is asleep. Often when I wake him up in the morning, his "little butter" will already be awake before he is, and he doesn't realise it until I kiss it good morning (I find it flattering, oddly enough!).

I don't know if it's the same for all guys, but my hubby's nocturnal erections while he's asleep aren't concious, not are they controlled.

By the way, he's 35 years old and is harder, hornier, and more sexually open than ever! There was a time when he would be "scared" of how often I myself wanted to have sex with him, but these days it's almost the other way around! He seems to always be "****** and loaded" and often he's able to "reload" in a question of minutes! It's amazing what a healthy sexual appetite can do to some!

Hope this has helped you out a bit, luv!

Answer 3

I’ve understood what you meant.
Well, the most part of men generally is able to carry out a single sexual act only and then it needs some hour before being ready to perform another possible one.
Some man is able to get a very fast recover, even starting the second act after the first orgasm.
After the ejaculation, the erection often goes on for a while before the penis becomes limp naturally.
Subsequently or later, it even can occur some short erection due to the testosterone produced after the prior ejaculation, but in any case, those aren’t sign of a NEW excitement or lust.
After the sexual act, the simple touch of the penis even gives annoyance!
Your husband says the truth, and evidently isn’t one of the few lucky one able to perform more acts consequentially.

Answer 4

From personal experience, I get erections at night for lots of different reasons. Sex dreams usually lead to a "wet dream", or partial ejaculation, during sleep. I like to sleep on my stomach, so I have to masturbate to make it go away so I can sleep. If my girl is with me, we sometimes have sex 3-5 times in one night if my penis is good for it. I wouldnt worry about it. Personally, I want to have sex all the time, but I know that my girl probably would not be too happy if we just had sex all the time.

Answer 5

Well, it depends on the each individual whether he wants it or
not when his penis is erected while in his dreams.
Usually, men fantasied about sex with beautiful and sexy
women. Some men can perform sexual acts 2 or 3 times in a row and yet in a short while, they can get a firm erection when they wanted it.

Answer 6

erection during sleep is autonomic reflex,All guys get it 3 to 6 times per night, and not related to sexual dreams. Theres medical investigation done by account of number of night erections to diagnose erectile dysfunction.

Answer 7

yup, guys does erect during their sleep.. This is because most of the time penis is in a low oxygenated status, and erection is the only way to oxygenate it. This type of erection does not link to sexual thoughts. =)

Answer 8

erections during sleep are an autonomic reflex, not controlled consciously, and are not related to erotic dreams. All men get them throughout the night, though we mostly notice one first thing in the morning.

Answer 9

Erections during sleep are generally during REM sleep and we are unaware of them unless you wake us up for a quickie.

Answer 10

why do women try to make men seem complicated? we're simple. if it's up, use it. if it's not, it will be again soon enough...quicker with some help. what we think and dream about should not be judged; what we do or do not, should be. if women are really in tune with us, they won't pay any attention to what we say either...we're not the best orators and communicators.