let me refrase what i just said.i want a kid.but am scared how im going to manage thats all.thanxs x
2006-10-11 02:51:16 · 7 answers · asked by lucyhot21 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Listen Lucy
It is ok to be scared. I was scared when I had my first kid, but then it come natural to you. Trust me you will manage, especially if you breast feed. Diapers will get you though because it can get expensive, but if you potty train your child early enough then no problem. No need to worry about welfare or any other crap that people write about, the world need children........we were put here on earth to multiply. You will be ok...good luck in your endeavor....>D
2006-10-11 03:04:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your not ready yet especially finacially i would hold off for a bit children are very expensive and tiring personally i would only bring a child into this world if i knew i could give it my all material things and love ! if you dont have the money or a place to live just hold off for a little while until you have your house etc etc then a baby will be easy because obviously yu would be a good mother and love the child very much!! i know babies are cute but trust me they are very tiring!!! just think about it a litle bit more and wait til your ready!
2006-10-11 09:58:18 · answer #2 · answered by mummy of 2 boys and a princess x 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a blessing from god. When I got pregnant I was 18 I was into drugs and alcohol. Now I have a really good job I've straigtened out my life, now the only thing I worry about is her ending up like me Your baby will turn your life around completly. Be happy
2006-10-11 09:55:47 · answer #3 · answered by slightlyjayded 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how bout telling us what it is you are afraid of? Are you married? single? Are you afraid of the pain or of being a single parent ( if you arent married?)
Just a note, I was pretty scared too but now, 6 years later I cant imagine my life any different, I can just barely remember being scared- now I just love!
2006-10-11 09:53:42 · answer #4 · answered by chiara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a good thing to think about.Everyone needs to stop and think before having a child.Very good. Sounds like you have your act together. Good luck
2006-10-11 09:53:51 · answer #5 · answered by Billy T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your way too young to be a parent. Be young and free of commitment for as long as possible. You have many years ahead of you to have children.
2006-10-11 09:57:03 · answer #6 · answered by Bubbles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop telling silly fibs,you are e-mailing people telling different stories not sure whats a fib to the truth,you say you have a job than you don't,you say you have a partner then you don't,we are getting fed up with your fibs!!
2006-10-11 12:49:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋