well i wanna get pregnant. im 15 my boyfriends turing 16, we talked one day about wot would happen if i did get preg nd he sed that he would want me 2 keep it so he and i would have something to live for. we are having unprotected sex nd i really wanna get pregnant. i love my boyfriend heaps, nd for sum reason i wanna bub 2. should i go 4 it?
2006-10-11 02:47:50 · 18 answers · asked by Perth-beachbabe15 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
plz excuse my internet slang spelling. i do know how 2 spell properly ok.
2006-10-11 03:26:30 · update #1
Honey you're way too young!
a) where would you live? you can't expect your or his parents to have to support you, feed you, house you, etc If you're 'adult' enough to have sex and have a baby, you're adult enough to have your own house.
b) how are you going to afford that house? If you're both in school, how are you going to work full time to pay your rent/mortgage?
c) what kind of job do you think you're going to get if you don't even have a high school degree??? Not a very good one, and you'll be making peanuts.
d) if you're making peanuts for a paycheck how are you going to afford your rent/mortgage, food for the baby, clothes for the baby etc etc You can't expect others to support you!
You're both so young, trust me, at your age, you might be 'in love' one week, in hate the next week! Wait until you're older to have babies - and to have sex in the first place. Good luck to you.
2006-10-11 02:52:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you thought how you are going to buy diapers?
Who will babysit when you are in school?
How you will manage to do you homework when your baby is crying?
How you will get your baby to the docter?
Trust me im 17 and 38 weeks preg. Being pregnant is not fun. Getting up every morning throwing up having to go to school and sit at those uncomfrontable desk early in pregnancy. And some teachers are really mean and wont let you go to the restroom. Pregnancy isnt excused from school!!! Gaining weight feeling like a hippo while evryone stares at you. The later when you hit 38 weeks you get to have those wonder contracts where you feel like your cramping and then you get to look forward to birth dont that just sound fun your privite spot stretching 10 cm. oh boy i can hardly wait. Dont forget about your boobs leaking no matter where you are.
Anyway all Im saying is think twice Im worrying right now how im going to get my high school diploma and im a senior i only have months you have a couple years. Its not all fun, Im not going to tell you what to do, but if i was you i would wait and see how you and this guy works out. Im engaged we've been together almost 3 years. so i was your age when i met the guy but our relationship would have never made it if i got preg. at your age.
2006-10-11 10:50:26 · answer #2 · answered by mellow_26241 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you crazy? Child, you cant even spell. I promise you that at 16 NO BOY is ready to committ to caring for a women let alone a child.
You are trying to make yourself happy and not thinking about what the child needs. A child needs an adult to raise it, something you are NOT.
Stop having unprotected sex, and start growing up. Thats the most rediculous train of thought I have ever run across in my life. A child shouldnt have to suffer through a broken life just because its child mother wanted a real baby doll to play with.
Where the hell are your parents and why arent they raising you?
2006-10-11 09:53:12 · answer #3 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unprotected sex? A baby at 15? Hmm...well have you thought about doing one of those short courses that they offer where you get to see what its like to care for a baby? Some hands on experience might help you decide if this is the right time.
2006-10-11 09:56:23 · answer #4 · answered by Ink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's sad that you are so young and looking for something to love that is all your own. I understand these feelings, but trust me don't act on them. It is awfully hard to raise kids even when you're an adult with a job and a home of your own. My step-daughter got pregnant at 15. She is extremely bright, but wasn't able to finish school with all her friends. Her boyfriend married her and they moved in to their own house. It didn't last long. Boys don't like to play house all the time. At first they are really happy, but then their friends are out having a good time and he is stuck at home. He starts to resent it. He'll tell you that will never happen, because when your 16 it's hard to look ahead even a couple of years.
My suggestion is that you love yourself. Find out who you are and what dreams you really want to accomplish, then live them. Once you have a child you live your whole life for that child and your dreams are put to the side.
2006-10-11 09:59:50 · answer #5 · answered by brillantnut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have so much more to live for. Babies are great, but alot of responsibility. At 15, are you sure you really know what you want in your life? Are you sure he's the right one that you want to raise a child (children) with? How are you going to provide for this baby? Both of you will have to work to pay for the things that come along with a baby. A baby is alot of responsibility, and come with alot of hidden charges.
2006-10-11 14:52:15 · answer #6 · answered by banana_monster_22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i thought the same thing....... and you know what my "man" was too busy hanging out with his friends to be a daddy so now i'm trying to go to college, be a single teenage mom, and try and have a male role model for my 3 yr. old son. Sweetie, I'm not saying don't do it, just wait. You will wish you had if you don't. Babies are great BUTTTT you have your whole life to have kids and only part of your life to be a free teenager. Good luck.
2006-10-11 09:57:12 · answer #7 · answered by a.rose19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are most certainly out of your mind.
1. Chances are you will not even end up marrying this boy..EVER
2. Chances are he will leave you
3. You have no money, no job and no home
4. You will lack education and hence get no job (your spelling skills speak for themselves)
5. You are not even at the age of legal consent
2006-10-11 09:59:46 · answer #8 · answered by KathyS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i know wat you are going through. i wanted to get pregnant too but in the end we never did and we just broke up. dont go for it. your going to ruin your life. now that i look at it i could seriously have ruined my life. my cousins are pregnant and they are young too. i have seen that they arent too happy any more about having a baby. i thank faith that i never bacame pregnant. think about it. what if you two break up? your going to have to deal with this baby. just wait a year. if you still feel the same way then maybe then you can start talking about it. but trust me let time pass and you wont feel the same. i know i didnt. just enjoy your youth.
2006-10-11 11:39:23 · answer #9 · answered by Daisy Carlos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should wait till you are married. it may seem fun to have a kid (i know cause i want one too) but all summer i babysat little babies and toddlers and trust me they are a handful and since you have school to finish you should really consider that your parents probably will not want to take care of the child for you. i think if you really want one then you should wait till your married and use a condom now when you have sex because of STD's just in case.
2006-10-11 11:21:53 · answer #10 · answered by Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋