I came home from work the other day. I work as an paralegal and I am not my feet all day. We have to dress professionally and my feet get sore. When I got home, I was sitting on the couch. My husband came over, remove my heels and massaged my feet. It felt good, but I was really embarrassed. I know my feet had to be pretty ripe from being in hose and leather heels all day.
Should I have told him to stop?
2006-10-11 01:59:56 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not at all. It didn't appear to be a problem to him and he must have known what "state" your feet were in. Be thankful that you have a husband who is so considerate towards you......thousands would willingly swap places with you!
2006-10-11 02:06:10 · answer #1 · answered by sarch_uk 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A foot fetish is pretty harmless and common, except for maybe the part about being kicked in the groin, and it would appear that he is too embarrassed to tell you about it. Being that you are open minded you can use this to your advantage and surprise him. It's really hard to say exactly what to do because every guy with a foot fetish likes a little something different and just because he watched a video doesn't necessarily mean that he specifically liked the content he saw. Perhaps you could surprise him with something that would fall within your comfort zone. It would appear that he has a submissive side to him so put on a pair of sexy high heels and some day when he is not expecting anything come out in them, tie his hands and then tell him to get down on his knees and lick your feet and whatever else you can come up with. I think nothing would be more of a turn on for him than something spontaneous like that coming as a total surprise.
2016-03-28 04:47:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you should have accepted it for what it was and been grateful. It was an act of love, smelly feet or not, he was showing his love and concern for you through action. Shoot, look at all the women on here that wish they could have something like that when they get home. Count your blessings, tell him thank you and apologize if they did smell, but don't minimize what he did for you by telling him to stop.
2006-10-11 02:26:44 · answer #3 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My My! sounds like your husband really cares for you, I'm sure if your feet were on the nose he would of said something or washed them for you.
Answer; Definately not, but maybe you might ask if if you should wash your feet first, I know my wife would do this for me. He sounds like a loving caring husband, next time give him a cuddle and a kiss
2006-10-11 02:05:26 · answer #4 · answered by graeme1944 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know some women have this hangup about their feet.
It is very erotic to have your partner give you a foot massage.
It is such a turn on that after massaging the feet, I massage the ankles, and the calf. After that the thigh...and the rest is history.
Once I had a gal that asked me if I wanted my toes sucked?
Well...I will keep my answer to myself...
2006-10-11 02:17:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
You two are husband and wife. You probably fart and burp in front of him. Something like this wouldn't even bother him. If it really bothers you next time around, jokingly get up and say "I don't want to kill you today, i'll be right back." He probably really doesn't care.
2006-10-11 02:48:23 · answer #6 · answered by Rica 82 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologize for the smell, But at the same time just love it, what a wonderful husband you have, enjoy it and enjoy him!
2006-10-11 02:04:50 · answer #7 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should allow your husband the chance to show he cares and you should not be embarrassed
Good Luck and God Bless
2006-10-11 02:51:39 · answer #8 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no...he is a big boy......those are the small thing you put up with when you are married and love your spouse...sit back and enjoy if he don't like it he should have stopped or gotten some lotion with a good smell to cover it up....Nothing to be embaressed about it is human nature to 'smell'...
2006-10-11 02:03:29 · answer #9 · answered by cyborg_2099 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he kept doing it then he didn't mind the smell too much. Some guys even like it!
2006-10-11 03:45:46 · answer #10 · answered by Laura T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋