Gotten over my ex so quickly. We were married for over 7 years and we seperated from my ex in 2005. We are now divorced. We have not spoken since the day we seperated & I never think of him or miss him. I'm not sure if this is normal, is it??
2006-10-11 01:55:09 · 28 answers · asked by missyani 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like the relationship was over well before the seperation and divorce. You have moved on and that is a good thing!
Good Luck!
2006-10-11 01:59:40 · answer #1 · answered by tallerfella 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one thing you are thinking of him right now. If you were not you would not be asking this question. If you had divorced him then it is not a problem to go on with your life.But allowing your self to feel guilty, stressed out or what ever it is that you are feeling right now concerning him is not good for you at all. You are not the only one that has gotten over your ex quickly, he seems to have gotten over you quickly too. Now is that the true reason why you are asking this question? Move on with your Life, Be Happy!
Good Luck!!!!
2006-10-11 05:26:50 · answer #2 · answered by bigred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about it. I was married for over 20 years. Separated in 2004 and divorced begining of 2005 and don't miss him at all. I still have to see him because of the kids ( he comes round to pick them up ), but i can honestly say, i don't think of him or miss him.
2006-10-14 05:46:34 · answer #3 · answered by chelsea19622000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got over my ex before he was my ex!
We were together for 6 years. I do speak to him about once a year. When he makes his yearly call to his son. This year I didn't even talk to him. I just listened on the other line. Quite often I wish for him to be dead.
There is nothing wrong with how you feel. You learned real quick that is was over. Time to move on. I guess we just don't have time for that nonsense of missing him and crying around.
2006-10-11 02:00:16 · answer #4 · answered by danadeville 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has probably just hit u now that u r free......u were probably feeling the pain and the hurt while the relationship came to an end. U knew the end was near and kind of adjusted to it so when it did happen u were ready to face the world a new U and U r going to enjoy it. Good Luck
2006-10-11 02:14:30 · answer #5 · answered by bammbamm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, if you have gotten over your ex that quickly, then it was not true love to begin with. That was not "The One" for you. Think of it as a good thing. You are ready to move forward in your life.
2006-10-11 02:00:13 · answer #6 · answered by ame_369 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The world of coping with different things in life can be unpredictable.people react differently to the news of deceased ones-some may laugh others cry.i think it is for our own protection, almost like a barrier we put up. maybe this is why we sometimes do not feel saddened by something as big as a relationship break up.maybe it is a survival instinct?!
2006-10-11 02:05:29 · answer #7 · answered by XEN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was married for 22 years, knew my wife for almost 25 years. Almost the day I left I felt nothing for her (I'd like my house & my cat back though). You've probably done the right thing - good on ya.
2006-10-11 02:02:58 · answer #8 · answered by taffyman48 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was with my ex for 13 yrs, he was violent, so when i left him, i got with my new husband within a couple of months, i ran over my ex, unfortunatly i have 4 kids with my ex so we have to have contact, but when i kicked him out he ceased to be a person in my mind so i think you are perfectly normal
2006-10-11 04:03:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on why you got divorced. I was in the same place 14 years ago. He wasn't good for me, undermined my self confidence, didn't trust me, and generally didn't love me enough. 14 years on, I still don't miss him or think of him. It's called 'moving on'. Good luck for the future, hope one day you find some-one who deserves you.
2006-10-15 00:18:49 · answer #10 · answered by F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋