mi patner has bin secretly communicating with mi best friend 4 some. i recently discovered bout them and he said he needed some help from her. she says he has always wanted to sleep with her. we bin going out 4 six years now and i have known her 4 seven years.She hasnt been generous with the truth b4 so i do not know who 2 believe between them. He maintains she is lying.
2006-10-11 01:40:19 · 16 answers · asked by sasha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Wait and watch for some more time. they are your old friends and things like this can happen between them and your aim should be that if any of such relation is present in between them it should not deepen. You should not accuse anyof them on their face . Just try to live a normal life . Every thing will be ok in due course of time . Both of them now know this that you have found out about their relation . So now they will also try to finish it off . But if you talk to them so often about it the things can worsen out.
2006-10-11 19:01:25 · answer #1 · answered by soofi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ahead and set up a meeting with you and the other two. You will notice right away by their actions if any sex is going between them. At this point, just keep your eyes and ears open, guilty people tend to give themselves away. Afterward dump him because of the possible STD's that he has contracted from her. No not infect anyone else please.
Edna
2006-10-11 08:43:33 · answer #2 · answered by edna_romano_1943 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety, is ur husband happy with u?..does he do small things like>spending time with u, getting things which u like to make u happy ,etc...do u find any changes in his character from the time this problem has popped in>>?...u got to think abt all this things before jumping into conclusion because, u r already married to him and u can't find fault in him without knowing as to wat exactly happened...wait for some time and i am sure at one point or the other ur husband wud give u some hints, if he is really involved in a extra-marital relationship...at the same time make sure that u deal wiht this very carefully and see to it that ur husband is not hurt if there is no fault in him..ur spouse is more important to u than ur friend..so play safe..hope this willhelp u..take care
2006-10-11 09:01:59 · answer #3 · answered by bryan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the fact that they have been caught out would suggest that they are both going lie and blame each other in order to get out of it. In my opinion none of them can be trusted and you are probably best off with them. Get your self a guy who appreciates you and some friends that do to!!!
2006-10-11 08:44:24 · answer #4 · answered by xhoneybeex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His caller her secretly, that is a relationship violation. Your girlfriend not stopping it just as bad. Sit them in a room together let them know if it doesn't stopped their both dumped - These are two of your closest friends??? I feel sorry for you they have both disrespected your friendship
As for how's telling the truth, who cares....the fact is that what they are doing is wrong
Good Luck
2006-10-11 08:46:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Improving your spelling and grammar wouldn't hurt, but like some other people said...you should get them together and talk to them. If something is going on it won't be long before its obvious.
2006-10-11 08:56:41 · answer #6 · answered by smartyartygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sasha, my feeling is that you are being deceived probably by both if this is the case then, neither of them deserve you and you should move on and leave them to it - sorry some people and snakes aren't they.
2006-10-11 08:44:49 · answer #7 · answered by candy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, I am very sorry you have to go through that.
Secondly, ask yourself "can I trust either of them? Do they deserve a second chance?and is that the kind of people I want in my life?"
Those answers should help you decide what
you should do.
goodluck
2006-10-11 08:44:26 · answer #8 · answered by grace 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe neither of them, they weren't open and honest about communicating secretly.
2006-10-11 08:47:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you do not trust someone them its not a good idea to be with them.that person must not be your best friend if he wants to sleep with your girl. need to ask your friend about it. dont get to mean about it just ask "have you slept with her"
did they tell you what the were doing....if they wont tell or stutter about it then they are haveing sex behind your back and you need to stop it
2006-10-11 08:45:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋