I have suspected for a couple of weeks that my man has found someone else. Last night for the first time he never came home and I have heard nothing. I am really broken hearted. I know there is someone else although he denies it. No children involved.
2006-10-11 01:24:03 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ypu poor thing my heart goes out to you. I think though that you know what you have to do. Its over, pick yourself up, try and wrap your broken heart, look after yourself, and try and put your life back together. I know it doesn't help but you will feel better, you will get over it. First things first though.....couple of bottles of wine, fave DVD and a couple of good girlie friends......All the best honey xxx
2006-10-11 01:30:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart I`m sorry and I wish I could help more. But you know what has to be done. I`m sure there are other issues at stake. Perhaps he is paying the bills and many other perplexing things but you can not stay in that type of environment. Thank goodness you do not have children in the picture and now you can be mobile and adgile in the blink of an eye. If you are the primary home owner or if the apt is in your name I`d put his stuff on the front porch and change the locks.
If you are wanting to try and work it out then do so first but be frank and straight forward with him when you do get him home. Call and get credit card statement to see where he`s spending money, ie, motels, bars etc. Talk to a friend of his and ask point blank for help, ask where and who he`s been with. Work it as much as you can. There is nothing worse than being played over, and treated like you`re stupid. I can tolerate alot of things in life but a Liar I can not put up with and neither can you. You my dear are a rare and very special person and deserve only the best in life.
Hugs,
Jim
2006-10-11 01:45:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
U deserve the best! Is he giving u that? Then u know what u have to do. It will be tough and there will be lots of tears and hurt but u will emerge from this stronger. Broken hearts heal. The best revenge is to go out there live your life to the full and be happy. Things happen for a reason u r meant for someone else, someone who deserves u, who makes u truly happy. Once you have confronted this issue u will feel much better the place ur in at the moment is the worst possible place to be the not knowing. U can and u will make it through this. He is a coward and weak u r not. U r special don't ever forget it!!! Stay strong. Thinking of u
2006-10-11 01:48:31 · answer #3 · answered by Tracy Love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without shouting or getting too upset, you need to get a decent explanation from him. If he cannot come up with one, finish the relationship, tell him you are deeply disappointed in him, but that you will survive without him as there will be plenty of others waiting to take his place. Keep your head held high and let him think he is leaving a gorgeous proud and dignified woman.
After all that find a friend, share a bottle of wine and sob your heart out until you are over him.
2006-10-11 01:49:59 · answer #4 · answered by feebee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't tell you how you can feel better, I guess it will just take time for the feelings to pass. It's so hard, I guess you have to think that you are worth more and that he doesn't deserve you. One day it will just feel slightly less raw until eventually it passes entirely. Try and surround yourself with those who truly love you like close friends and family. I promise you it will pass, good luck. I hope you feel better soon.
2006-10-11 01:31:26 · answer #5 · answered by Flossie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask him outright. When he comes back just say can we have a chat. Look him in the face and ask. If he has found someone, its tough but at least you will know. However, if he is liar you will have to find ways to catch him out.
2006-10-11 01:27:54 · answer #6 · answered by Annie M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is end it if you think his seeing someone else for certain, but i would try and get some evidence first like texts and calls off his phone.
find someone else that deserves your love and support
good luck.
2006-10-11 01:30:46 · answer #7 · answered by honey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that your gut feeling is the right feeling. If a man I was involved with didn't come home that would tell me he is not the one for me.
2006-10-11 01:31:52 · answer #8 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't want to be with you you cant make him and it would only make both of you unhappy. Take a good look at your life and think of your future and what you want to achieve, then make some changes, a positive attitude is an attractive one
2006-10-11 01:32:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear this your heart can be fixed but you have to make the choice yourself start a new life but be 100% your right good luck
2006-10-11 01:29:18 · answer #10 · answered by johnny boy rebel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋