we've tried everything but the doc won't recomend fertility drugs yet. I have kids of my own, and they were surprises. Any ideas will be very helpful.
2006-10-11 01:21:00 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
We've done testing on both of us. We are both normal. And temp testing isn't working I take it every day and it doesn't change. This is our second time trying, we tired last year and no luck. So we stoped and now were trying again and still nothing. Thank you all for your help
2006-10-11 01:35:47 · update #1
I am going to TRY not to sound like a fortune cookie with this, but I really think your answer lies in your information. Okay I wasn't successful at not sounding like a fortune cookie, but really look at what you said, "I have kids of my own, and they were surprises." Maybe you and your husband are trying SOOOOO hard that the stress is causing you to NOT get pregnant. My suggestion is that before you spend thousands of dollars on fertility treatments, you and your hubby go away on a vacation and make the vacation about not getting pregnant. What I mean is that when you guys get to your vacation spot do not avoid sex, but don't make it about making a baby. If sex happens, just let it. I have had several friends in your situation and as long as the doctor didn't see a medical reason for them to not be getting pregnant, this advice has worked for about 80% of them.
Good luck!!
2006-10-11 01:31:22 · answer #1 · answered by Just me.... 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My wager could be the two you ovulate previous due or early. I ovulate on day 9 or 10 after my era. in basic terms found out i'm ultimately pregnant after a 365 days of attempting. in basic terms wait and spot and loosen up, rigidity if the worst element for you in case you are attempting.
2016-10-16 01:51:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure he wears boxers not briefs
Get a fertility detector kit
Only have sex every 2 days
relax and don't put pressure or stress on either of you, it certainly won't help the situation, my sister in law was two days away from taking fertility drugs out of frustration when she found out she was pregnant with my nephew...now three babies later in 3 years I think she's done!
Good Luck
2006-10-11 01:24:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Getting pregnant can take a while for some. Dont give up it will happen eventually. If the doctor says everything is fine then i cant see a problem, but it does take time. When you have finnished try not to stand up or walk around after having sex, try laying on bed with your legs up high for as long as you can, this seemed to help for me, lol.
Good luck!
2006-10-11 01:25:16 · answer #4 · answered by rach_b_2003 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A website i used www.mymonthlycycles.com is how i tracted everything.
Also remember your body only releases one egg a month so you only have one chance a month.
Plus after you just had sex dont jump str8 up to go to the bathroom also try putting a pillow under your butt that will let the sperm go deeper. Ya know
JUST KEEP SWIMIN JUST KEEP SWIMIN
Um, the bed way to concieve is the guy on top,
second is doggy.
2006-10-11 04:00:30 · answer #5 · answered by mellow_26241 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax ! by relaxing and just being patient your bodies (and emotions), will reset themselves, and by doing so when the time is right it will happen. be patient you are young and still have a great deal of time to have children. if you know the old saying " a watched pot never boils" then you may realize the comparison. so take some time apart, stop focusing on getting pregnant, take a relaxing and fun vacation together, get your minds off of the problem in order to relax. and before you know it you will be pregnant with twins and in a few years have 12 children, just remember to name one of the female children starla marie, and she shall always be special because she was born a star and shall ever be a part of the stars!
2006-10-11 01:36:21 · answer #6 · answered by grim_reaper_69 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Everyone says relax, but I know that when you want a baby, that's all you think about. Have you tried ovulation predictor kits? You can buy them at the drugstore. They're just like pregnancy tests. When the test is positive, you should try, try, try! GOOD LUCK!
2006-10-11 01:48:22 · answer #7 · answered by momof3 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try charting your basal body temperature - it's a much more accurate method of following your ovulation than the calendar alone.
Check out the site below for a complete explanation.
Blessings on you, and good luck!
2006-10-11 01:23:05 · answer #8 · answered by DidacticRogue 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most doctors will not consider fertility treatments until one year has passed....and then testing has to be done on both of you, usually starting with the male, because it is simpler and less expensive.
You said your other children were surprises......so maybe you should quit trying so hard.....relax....relax...relax....... and maybe you will get another surprise......
2006-10-11 01:27:29 · answer #9 · answered by jrsgurl62 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Best of luck on this. Try just not "trying". If you quit "trying to have a baby" you'll be surprised.
2006-10-11 03:04:14 · answer #10 · answered by kajunmommie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋