2006-10-11 00:47:00 · 45 answers · asked by Isabelle 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
tell him you used to be a man
2006-10-11 01:54:03 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Tell him your gay
2) Tell him you're with someone
3) Do something terribly unlady-like in front of him, e.g. fart or burp . . . nasty but effective.
4) When you next see him look awful
5) Tell him you have a contagious disease
6) Tell him it is part of your beliefs that if a man flirts with you, he must marry you.
7) Ask him to marry you
Some of these should work.
(If all else fails "Look, I am really flattered, but your flirting is making me uncomfortable. Can you ease off a little? I just don't want it to effect our friendship" . . . . sometimes honesty is the best policy.
Have a great day
Kim
2006-10-11 00:57:21 · answer #2 · answered by Kimxxxx 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Evidently you don't feel that just telling him is going to get the job done. If this is the case then forget about being nice and do whatever it takes to get your point across. If this is a situation at work, you can always let him know that this does fall in the sexual harassment category.
2006-10-11 00:53:55 · answer #3 · answered by Letsee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't encourage him. Ignore his flirtations. Just smile and walk away with no response. In the alternative, keep away from him if you can. If for some reason he doesn't get the message or refuses to get the message, just tell him laughingly, "you are out of line"! and walk away. If he persists, I'd just tell him you bet his wife would like to hear that comment. That should p... him off enough that he'll let you alone.
2006-10-11 00:57:35 · answer #4 · answered by Blondie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Every time he starts, ask him about how his wife is doing, how the kids are doing in school (if he has any), and other questions of a similar nature - all focussing on and reminding him of the fact that he's married. That ought to cool him off some.
2006-10-11 00:54:11 · answer #5 · answered by Liz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is flirting with u bcos u attracted him but u can stop this by avoiding him, explain to him that u dont want to complicate matters and that he should back off bcos he is married.. by the way does he wear a wedding ring? I hope so
2006-10-11 00:54:05 · answer #6 · answered by ore 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offence but don't do it in a nice way! He is horrible even to be thinking about having an affair with another woman, think how his wife feels?
A horrible person does not deserve nice treatment, tell him to bog off!!
2006-10-11 02:40:11 · answer #7 · answered by boudicea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you respect marriage and would never consider getting involved with a married man. You don't have to be too nice he is pushing his luck!!
2006-10-11 00:57:43 · answer #8 · answered by mbaker_713 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remind him he is married. If it doesn't work, tell him you have AIDS. Not funny, I know, but should do the trick. Even better, ask him what he thinks about you having a sex change... he'll be running before his legs could take him... I'm just visualising the scenario now...
2006-10-11 02:15:14 · answer #9 · answered by ribena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I told this one married co-worker "Mr. (whatever) please stop with your comments, because I find you highly attractive and I am the kind of girl that would follow through with what you're suggesting if you were not married" It worked for a while.
Unfortunately, I've been having an affair with him for over 3 years now
2006-10-11 00:57:41 · answer #10 · answered by who me? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i just simply tell them that " i am looking for a man who wants to be in a relationship that isn't already in one,,further more since you are married you are beynd relationship you are in a commitment,,,thankyou but no thankyou" i don't care if i am rude ,because i look at it this way he is being disrespectful to his wife and children if he has any and most importantly he doesn't care or seems to bother him if he hurts his family only care about indulging himself
2006-10-11 01:30:01 · answer #11 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋