2006-10-11 00:45:37 · 14 answers · asked by grace m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
why bother as long as it is on net.
these are only fantasies.
2006-10-11 00:48:45 · answer #1 · answered by Kumar 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh boy. For starters, girl he ain't going to admit it. If you catch the two of them going at it he'll say he tripped and just happened to land that way.
Don't you trust him? That's the million dollar question. Do you trust him? I've always told my husband I'm not his babysitter, and I don't want to be. He's on his own. If he cheats and I catch him it's over, don't bother with the excuses.
Continually accusing each other of cheating is only going to break down the relationship. Who has time for that crap? Who wants to hear that crap? You need to respect each other. My hubby always asks before he goes into my purse, is there something in there he shouldn't see? Hell, no. I don't go in his wallet either. And I don't check up on him if he's on the net. And he doesn't look through my files. Would he find any surprises? Nope. Would I be surprised? No. See a pattern here? We are very open with each other.
The truth is, if a person is going to cheat on another they will find a way regardless of how much you spy on them and eventually they'll get caught. I have much better things to do with my energy than spy on him. Jeez what a waste of time.
2006-10-11 01:17:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop confronting him and accusing him...just keep an eye on computer activity. Set up the account to include yourself as a manager not just a user...this will allow you access to files (e-mail, pics, etc). Make copies of your findings then confront him with the proof...unless he's violent...then see an attorney. HOWEVER...some men (and women) justify it because it's just online...not an actual affair. So unless he takes it to the next level of actually meeting the girls...you may want to just remain quiet but aware, and see what happens
2006-10-11 00:52:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not pry or question him, or you will find yourself alone and in a dark place. Start to improve your sex life, Oral Anal Outdoor stuff, BDSM alos watch the weight! You have it in your power to save this marriage, shape up and start to please him. Whatever he wants whenever he wants it with whoever! Go for it and ENJOY life oh! Bye the way ignore the religious nutters, and losers in love on here they are either alone or trapped in marriages where there husband or wife is at it with others or not giving them any at all xx
2006-10-11 01:03:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why shouldn't he not chat to strangers on the net,your as bad as my misses.what are you doing by posting this question.if hes straying give hI'm more of what all men want,hope im not being to blunt but if a man ain't getting fed at home he goes up the cafe.if you get my drift.[feed him more often]metaphorically speaking.
2006-10-11 00:50:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if I feel I have a strong relationship with my husband I would have a serious talk with him, and I will ask him to be honest with me, because I have proof, don't say what? and see what he says.
2006-10-11 01:05:00 · answer #6 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive found that you dont live ur life depending upon others to fulfill ur needs u need hobbies of your own and if my husband was on net id let him be and go and find somone else...cos i dont belive in making or forcing somone to like u,,surely they either want to or dont
2006-10-11 00:48:59 · answer #7 · answered by cleo_alter_ego 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
of course i will test him.. i will say i trust him but in fact i will never do that while trusting is good but controlling is the better. So i will check him and organise a friend to flirt with him and when they he is interested then i know how is he.
All the best sweety.
2006-10-11 00:49:49 · answer #8 · answered by Jenny 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he has been in contact with someone via the internet, the proof will be all over his harddrive.
2006-10-11 01:00:57 · answer #9 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would believe him.....until I had evidence to the contrary.....but that's just me, I'm a very trusting woman....
2006-10-11 01:04:25 · answer #10 · answered by honey_bear_21_1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋