i have just started uni and it seems like i have no one really who is supporting me financially or emotional, even my family.But the main promblem is i have three men in my life as am a girl all of them want to be my boyfiend and are willing to help but at the back of my mind am thinking it not without a cost. I have tried looking for a job but at tHe moment i can't find any so what should i do please help.
2006-10-11 00:42:04 · 12 answers · asked by bintaj01 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
firstly your uni should have a welfare officer who is best placed to give you guidance regarding financial issues, get to them as quick as possible. many uni's also have a dedicated job placement programme within the uni i.e say a job in one of the bars, canteens cleaning whatever again the welfare officer will help.
regarding the men lucky you! as a man myself i would say that not all of us are completely ulterior one of them may just like you without wanting to get "anything", don't be rushed into getting a boyfriend if you are not ready or feel pressured. if you can separate the issue of the financial support from the emotional one of the men you may be able to see the best way to go. good luck and remember uni is going to be the best few years of your life to date it just may not seem like it at the moment.
2006-10-11 00:50:59 · answer #1 · answered by hedgepig 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A time comes when you have to realise that you are not a little girl anymore and that you have to stand on your own two feet. You can't expect anyone to support you, think of the people that have nobody to support them. It's tough at first but you'll get there in the end. P.s Don't go out with men because you think they will support you, go out with men you actually like.
2006-10-11 00:46:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I take it from your spelling you're not a native English speaker. It is really up to you what is the best thing for you as I don't know your boyfriends. Try looking for work in the catering industry like hotels, bars. If you find work and earn your own money you will not have to ask for help from them and you will be independent and it will give you a good start to working life. Keep looking and don't give up. Good luck..
2006-10-11 00:50:50 · answer #3 · answered by Tws 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure their are some jobs at the university. It is okay to get help from the boyfriend, but at what price that will cost? You only have to depend on yourself, so try and come up with some kind of solution, of what is best for you, only you can make that decision!
2006-10-11 00:50:12 · answer #4 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
carry on looking for a job or get a student loan to help you.
going with either of the lads will put you in a worse position than you are now and if something happens you will be out on your feet.
2006-10-11 01:34:48 · answer #5 · answered by honey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep tyring to find a job don't take on a boyfriend for the wrong reason seek help else where talk to people meet new friends hopefully one will put you in touch with a job good luck
2006-10-11 00:46:54 · answer #6 · answered by johnny boy rebel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont get invoved for cash hun, not a good basis for a relationship and will only cause u grief with your studies, keep looking for a bar job, or cleaning job xxx anything will do as when ur in work its easier to find other work xx gl xx
2006-10-11 00:45:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Date all three, and have 3 sugar daddies! It's every woman's dream!
2006-10-11 00:44:30 · answer #8 · answered by heatherlynnmorrow 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont take anything from any of these guys, you have to get on with it and try harder to get a job etc... its a tough world out there you have to try and stand on your own two feet and hold your head high. welcome to the real world !!!!
2006-10-11 00:58:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow lucky you, and your moaning lol <3
2006-10-11 00:47:38 · answer #10 · answered by Angelkiss85 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋