i think ive lost physical attraction to my fiance! he is so sweet we have been together for 3 years and engaged for two nearly! were only 19 and our sex life has gone down hill already! i know that things change in a long term relationship after a while but this isnt good, i love him very much as hes been my bestfriend for over 5 years!! we get on really well and have a laugh but i just dont want to sleep with him anymore...im always making excuses like im tired or i dont feel well! i dont no whats going on with me! i dont want to hurt him by breaking up with him id miss him like crazy! hes a good looking guy but why am i not attracted to him anymore
2006-10-11 00:35:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
That's the bad part of young people having sex at such an early are. 19 and already bored with sex. You've experimented so much there's no excitement left. That's a shame.
Spice things up, go to http://www.adameve.com/ for some ideas.
2006-10-11 00:41:16 · answer #1 · answered by Larry F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be the two of you need a break for each other. You both have been with each other since you were young, and you have never had any freedom. you may feel like things are just closing in on you, and you want to experience life a bit. May be it is time to have that talk with your fiance, and see what he has to say, or the two of you may want to seek counseling!
2006-10-11 07:43:26 · answer #2 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are on any kind of birth control this will totally affect your sex drive, when i got on the shot my sex drive became nonexistant. if you are on any medications look up the side effects or ask people on here if they are on the same thing you are
2006-10-11 07:42:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should visit a psychologist!
2006-10-11 07:50:23 · answer #4 · answered by mark!!001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋