I am a stay at home mom of four kids and I homeschool them. My husband has been military so we've always had a transient lifestyle. He has been unfaithful. I'd like to continue to homeschool my kids after divorce, but I need to know if that's possible. What would my child support be?? Is there a formula or percentage?? And is it possible to get alimony?? Is there a percentage or formula for that as well?? Thanks for any help!
2006-10-11 00:19:45 · 12 answers · asked by Kymberly W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
How much money does your ex earn... that's usually the start and end point... it will also determine child support allowance
2006-10-11 00:22:23 · answer #1 · answered by jonti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is up to the court how much you would get for child support. Also you might mention the fact that you want to home school your children to your lawyer that way the judge might give you a little more child support or alimony so that you may continue the lifestyle which your children have become accustomed to. Just make sure that your lawyer knows this so that this arrangements can be made to afford the lifestyle . However things dont always work this way . So be preparred to have to work outside the home and send your kids to regular public school. Good Luck ,hope all works out for you and your kids.
2006-10-11 00:42:04 · answer #2 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that before you actually divorce, you are entitled to a percentage of his BAQ. Through divorce proceedings the child support will be set according to his pay scale. As far as alimony, it would depend on how long you were married to him. Call an attorney there locally and ask some questions. Most states will allow you to file for the divorce and ask that he pay the attorney fees and court costs. Good luck!
2006-10-11 00:23:28 · answer #3 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on a lot of factors. My husband pays more child support than a lot of people we know, so I can't figure out any formula on it, all I know is it's too much money for one kid! (It's with his ex, not me)
Get a lawyer or go to the child support office in your area. They will be able to help you and after you go to court you will be granted child support for sure, however alimony might be based on how long you've been married....
2006-10-11 00:32:16 · answer #4 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Child support is based on both parents income,since you don't have any income then it will be based on his income and parenting time with the children,as far as the alimony depends on how long you were married to him for instance if you were married for 8 yrs you will get spousal support for 4 yrs IF the judge orders your soon to be ex to pay it.If you don't have a court order he doesn't have to pay you anything but until the divorce is filed and temp orders are in place it is really at the discreation of his command,like I said they cannot make him support you with that being said if he's any kind of man he will not let his kids go without because the military doesn't smile on that kind of behavior so please asap get a tem order for support until you go to court for perm.orders gl wish you well sorry you are in this situation.
2006-10-11 02:29:27 · answer #5 · answered by CaliMa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
http://www.alllaw.com/calculators/childsupport/
Above is a child support calculator....put in # of children monthly gross income. Your child support could range anywhere from $850.00 - $1100.00 a month for 4 kids.
Keep in mind...child support shouldn't be expected to live on. You really should think about getting a JOB and support yourself. Maintenance (alimony) is only a temporary thing and again shouldn't be expected to support you.
You are an able body....GO TO WORK!!! and depend on yourself. Using your husband as an excuse for HOME schooling...and homeschooling by choice....is just an excuse!
2006-10-11 01:04:06 · answer #6 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alimony depends on the state you were married in.
Support is the same, but I think the rule of thumb is 20% for the first kid and 10% for each additional.
2006-10-11 00:27:28 · answer #7 · answered by Red 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are asking the wrong crowd! Go to the Military and ask for an attorney! You will of course, have to explain all the details to them - but you can do it! Good luck to you girl!
2006-10-11 00:25:18 · answer #8 · answered by CJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All these things are based on a lot of factors. You need to see a lawyer in your state.
2006-10-11 00:26:54 · answer #9 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think child support in la is 1/4 of his total income. i'm not sure about alimony.
that totally sucks for you. i'm sorry that your husband is a jerk.
2006-10-11 00:24:41 · answer #10 · answered by kajunprincezz 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋