when I meet her, talk to her, I feel some kind of fear to say something wrong, to make something wrong... and that's only makes me saying more stupid things or keeping sielence at all...And there's no problem to talk to others, everything else is easy...except deals with her
2006-10-10 23:45:47 · 13 answers · asked by Ugi 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
ask yourself before you go talk to her wut if she left you or you left her how would you want to talk to her then? learn to be yourself as in time you will forget you are afraid and the real you will come out and if she doesn't like it she will leave
2006-10-10 23:51:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be really head over heels or simply fear her I think. Has anything happened in the past that has made you this hyper aware of yourself with her? Try to relax and even if you do say or do something daft just go with it. You are not showing her the real you, she will be aware of that you know. Staying silent could be worse as she could see this as disinterest and things might fizzle out. Remember your opinions and thoughts matter just as much as hers. The best relationships are when you can communicate easily with your partner and sometimes even have your mind changed about things when given a different perspective.
On the other hand, maybe deep down you know you are not compatible but you are still very attracted to her and just do not want to face up to the truth.
Either way, all the best and just relax and enjoy each other in the meantime.
2006-10-11 07:15:53 · answer #2 · answered by rondavous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be Dr Bach flower remedy (under Homeopathy) called MIMULUS can help you overcome this fear which is basically a 'performance anxiety' which means even talking or expressing youself, Performance anxiety is that high tension many people suffer from before important events in life like exams, interviews, business and personal meetings. You can talk to her, in a relaxed way and share your feelings without any hesitation.
2006-10-11 08:19:11 · answer #3 · answered by goodcitizenz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nessasity is the mother of invention u can do it
u are concentrating on what happens when u talk wrong with her.dont do that just be what u are. Dont think that u may loose her or any thing negative.dont think too much.
there are some tips by DAVID angelo u can get some tips on ur date
there is book named Double Your date written by him,
happy talking& dating
2006-10-11 07:03:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You act that way because you're in love with her. You want to please her so much that you fear not being able to and become self-conscious. A good thing would be to let her know how important she is to you and how much you care about her. I believe after that you'll feel more relaxed around her and will be your endearing natural self...
And remember if she is your girl-friend it means that she wants to be....
2006-10-11 08:43:52 · answer #5 · answered by Jasmine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's why she is special to u.It's natural but don't get late in saying something or u will be late for whole life so be quick to say will u marry me?till some one said so.Hurry up get ur swords ready and chill up and said to her that you are girl of my dreams please marry me i can't live without for second trust me honey give me ur hand and then traditional french kiss will do the trick.
2006-10-11 07:12:29 · answer #6 · answered by pearl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it is easier to say then do, but you just have to get comfortable and relax when you talk to her I means shes your girlfriend she should be one of your best friends, so basically you have to be able to talk to her about anything that is sensible and not against her lol but its all about being comfortable and relaxing when talking to her
2006-10-11 06:53:26 · answer #7 · answered by goodquestion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need not worry about if you saying something wrong u need to just be your self and let it flow.
2006-10-11 06:55:44 · answer #8 · answered by besos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do some jaw relaxin exercise before meeting her
2006-10-11 06:55:32 · answer #9 · answered by strange_raga 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say anything u want to. sometimes, ur own mouth works for urself
2006-10-11 06:49:46 · answer #10 · answered by The Lioness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋