this might sound silly but i feel too unattractive to wear heels or carry a handbag, or have my hair down, or wear bright colours. i always wear brown or grey when i go out. even though i dont look like a model, im not ugly either, i have a nice body and people tell people tell me im pretty and sometimes i do think so myself when i look in the mirror then i go out of the house and i see beautiful women then it just reminds me of how unattractive i am
2006-10-10 22:12:13 · 12 answers · asked by scorpiobaby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
even i don't feel like Wearing heels or carry a bag or have my hair down....and i know that I'm not so attractive....there r so many girls out there who r really pretty but u know what....god gave me 2 beautiful eyes so that i can c this world,he gave me ears so i can hear my lovely brother's voice,2 legs,2 hands....I've got everything that a normal person has & i think thats the most important thing...if to have a heart that cares about others i have to be unattractive happy to be unattractive...the real beauty is inside u..
I recently visited "Ceshire Home - For disabled" & its there that i realized that my life is amazing...Many people cannot talk,walk,eat by themselves...I'm happy that I can do all these things by myself...I think there is a lot more to life than looks..
2006-10-10 22:36:19 · answer #1 · answered by live_let.live 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its more of inner beauty, your character and stuff rather than external beauty. I dont deny that it is a bonus, but the main key is still inner beauty. I believe in wearing the right thing which you feel confident and comfortable in. Of cos, not to the extend of wearing sport shoes to a posh dinner =). Opt for things you like to wear. I do not see a need to follow what the norm does like heels and pretty bags and shoes if you are not comfotable in them. Be confident of yourself. Once you are confident, it just shines.
2006-10-11 05:58:39 · answer #2 · answered by agen7red 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are beautiful...really beautiful, you know what ? the one thing is that you are young...being young is beauty. nothing else, when you are young you have confidence, you your own style, talking, walking, ideas...for which all them are impressive, attractive...but when you are old...you do not have these all...which mean you do not attract at all...but now you are good, even most people do not tell you so( for one reason could...you do not smile a lot that people afraid to talk to you), you are beautiful...let me tell you a secret...go to bathroom.. Stand in front of a mirror...look at you self and say' you are the most beautiful creature in this world' and smile slightly, smile more slightly, and more, more slightly...before you know it you are really laughing...you are really happy... do not compare yourself with other people for what you are and for something that you can not change at all...love yourself, magnify yourself...smile everywhere, do not be angry because of silly things...be clam, when, when other people talk to you about something listen to them ask them more more let them do the talking, when you have to sympathies do it sincerely. Appreciate each and every good deed, when you go to home hug and kiss every body sinisterly... always ...I mean always...be yourself.... before you know it every body around you, putting you as standard to be craved.
2006-10-11 07:43:17 · answer #3 · answered by Montel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, what to do....
You have to make sure that you like your clothes and your haircut first. Buy them as if you were buying them for the perfect looking lady. Burn all the grey and brown stuff, everybody would look boring in such non colours. Don't compare yourself to somebody else, just make the best of what you got.
From what I see in your story I'm sure you're good looking, so it is definitely possible for you to look great :)
2006-10-11 05:20:34 · answer #4 · answered by Vage Centurian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need a make over, from head to toe. Not because of your looks or anything just put yourself in the hands of someone else. Let them remake you, new hair, new clothes, shoes & acess. put your trust in them. Sometines we get so set in our ways we don't know how to change. It will boost your confidence, self asteem & be a breath of fresh air. There are son many make over shoes on TV today you could watch them enough to figure out some little things on your own.
2006-10-11 05:16:31 · answer #5 · answered by char__c is a good cooker 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to concentrate on inner beauty. Forget about the superficial outter self. We were made in Gods image and He is a beautiful God So we are all beautiful. Its not what you wear its who you are and what you do that truly make you beautiful.
2006-10-11 05:18:57 · answer #6 · answered by phishmelon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like you have a self-esteem problem if every girl (or most girls) you see seems prettier than you. i bet you're really pretty, so i say try going out in public with makeup, heels and a handbag and be confident about it!
2006-10-11 05:15:09 · answer #7 · answered by ♥T♥ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk to somebody professional, you might have a case of depression and you definately have a low self esteem issue, they might be able to let you believe that you are beautiful and you deserve to be happy.
2006-10-11 05:14:30 · answer #8 · answered by Southie9 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
beautiful mind is the original beauty
2006-10-11 05:34:56 · answer #9 · answered by guharamdas 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need self confidence all woman are beautiful they just need to know that
2006-10-11 05:15:24 · answer #10 · answered by Bob D 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋