My father left my mum me and my sisters when i was 2 now im 26 i have'nt seen or heard from him since do u think i should try find him, im confused part of me wants to but then the other part thinks why bother he didnt keep in contact, i just wounder what he is like and what he does if he has more kids and why he never wanted to see us. What do u think?
2006-10-10 21:34:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think if you don't, you will always have that piece of you wonder. I hope that if and when you find your father, you start a relationship that is good. You will never have that kind of relationship that you should have had. I am sure he has been knowing that one or all of you would be searching for him and would be having those questions for him. He has to have had it on the back of his mind. Maybe he was scared at the time. You have the right to know. I will be praying for you or your siblings do search for your father. Best wishes to you.
2006-10-10 21:39:53 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People change and maybe your father wants to meet you now. It will resolve a lot of questions in your mind and be good to find out who your Father is. He may be a disappointment to you or may be you can develop a good relationship. What do you have to loose? This happened to my daughter when she turned 16 she wanted to meet her Dad and I never discouraged it. She found out she loved her Grandad but had little in common with her Dad. She said, " Her step dad had been a good dad to her and she really didn't need her Dad after all."
2006-10-11 04:40:46 · answer #2 · answered by Godb4me 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
YES my dad died when i was 20 months old & id do anything 2 have a realitionship with him if you find him & meet him & he IS the piece of crap that 1/2 you think he is nothing lost BUT if you dont you will wonder 4ever,what if-- with the other 1/2 of yourself so look at it like this whats 2 loose by finding him? only your anger & pain
2006-10-11 04:39:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go for it. Whats the worst that can happen? he may not want to know you but that doesn't make any difference, or he wanted to contact you but never had the guts. Be the bigger person and ask why he never contacted you. Good luck
2006-10-13 06:16:14 · answer #4 · answered by david s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, you have a lot of unanswered questions, why, how when? He might also have a good explanation why he left, maybe he wanted to see you and your sister.. As you mature, these questions will never be answered. I would suggest for you to seek your answers and meet your father. godd luck!!!!
2006-10-11 04:39:57 · answer #5 · answered by saldy m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try and find him you might not have all the facts from your mother i have a daughter called rebecca her mother,stopped me from seeing her,and i did not have the money to fight her in court,i have looked for her several times but no luck ,go girl at least give him the chance to tell his side of the story good luck
2006-10-11 05:17:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead. I would find him If I didnt see him over the years. Sure.
2006-10-11 04:44:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has not bothered your family for 24 years and why do you want to go in search of a person who doesnot want you people.
2006-10-11 04:36:58 · answer #8 · answered by Jayanthi S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dont think you should waste your time on a person who has not thought of you for 24 years...
2006-10-11 04:36:50 · answer #9 · answered by CosmicLight 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
some things are better left not being found out. he obviously never tried to find you, so why find him? you had a mom that loved you. alot of peopel don't have that.
2006-10-11 04:37:00 · answer #10 · answered by gallow 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋