My Gran died 4 months ago and i keep having dreams about her.
The dreams are always similar for example i will be in a crowded room or social situation then she will just apear out of nowhere. I will be shocked for a moment then feel an overwhelming feeling of happiness and thinks shes alive. We will hug then i will suddenly realise that she died and she disapears again. Then i normally wake up and feel really sad that shes not here anymore its really upsetting.
I'v started to have this all the time now! What does it mean
2006-10-10 21:29:00 · 10 answers · asked by D900 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I am sorry you lost your grandma. I guess it has something to do with getting out of the shock you had when she died and understanding death.
When I lost my grandma I could not believe it and death made no sense to me. How could someone who was always there be suddenly gone. I could never call her again, she was in this coffin and it was such an unnatural thing. It takes some time to get over this and maybe your dream is a way your unconscious tries to say goodbye to her. It sounds like this is your first experience of bereavement, or at least of a close person.
It is a difficult time, where we try to make sense of what happens in life and what it is for.
I hope you find your answer, I truly believe it is in each one of us.
2006-10-11 07:16:36 · answer #1 · answered by Wednesday 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you've been thinking about you gran a lot since she passed and you've not realised it. Don't panic i feel this is you're grans way of letting you know that even though she's not on the earth plane anymore, she's still around you and she can only let you know this when your most relaxed and that's when your asleep. Just let her come through to you and see what happens. My nan passed 4 years ago and i dream about her now and then and i always wake up crying but i wouldn't have it any other way!
2006-10-11 05:25:28 · answer #2 · answered by wildspirit27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you had a special bond that is why you are having this over and over. You miss her.
If you had unresovled issues this could happen also.
It's only been 4 months so give yourself time, meanwhile write things down in a journal that you would share with her or if possible talk with your parents about your feelings.
2006-10-11 05:18:44 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a normal reaction to losing someone you love. Try having a chat with someone else in your family about how much you miss her. Try not to worry about this, it is perfectly natural to feel deep sadness after only 4 months. Over time this will go away naturally.
2006-10-11 04:35:00 · answer #4 · answered by stienbabe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it just means you miss her! I lost my nan about 10 years ago and I love it when I dream of her - it brings me so much warmth and happiness, even when I wake and realise she's no longer here. I like to think that she's watching over me, a bit like my guardian angel. I miss you nana!
2006-10-11 04:34:12 · answer #5 · answered by Roxy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The next time you see her in your dream, try talking to her. Maybe she has something to tell you by appearing in your dream, something she had no time to tell you because she died. I am sorry. I lost my grandma too 8 months ago. She also sometimes appears in my dreams.
2006-10-11 04:42:33 · answer #6 · answered by psychologist 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One of two reasons. You simply miss her. Or, She is letting you know that she is still with you. What do you believe??
2006-10-11 04:38:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe this website will help
http://www.dreammoods.com/
2006-10-11 04:33:09 · answer #8 · answered by franxie03 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU MISS HER so sorry you losed her
2006-10-11 04:31:49 · answer #9 · answered by learningnewthings 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
http://spirita.blogspot.com/
2006-10-12 14:10:26 · answer #10 · answered by Spirita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋