But he says he wants to continue the relationship with me as husband & wife, enjoying intimate relationship also. I avoided it & continue to avoid him for that. But whenever we see each other we can't resist seeing each other in the eye. I don't want to have any other relationship within him except a friend. But he says he will continue loving me. How do I let him know that he will never get me as what he wants.
2006-10-10 21:24:26 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Say him that you are now porperty of another person! And say him, that what will he do, if his wife has a relationship like this??
2006-10-10 21:41:06 · answer #1 · answered by shiva 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is a very tricky situation. You are still having a soft corner for him. It is very tough for people to advice you on this matter. I know a friend who has married and has two children and his girlfriend is having two children and married to seperate persons. But today also they meet each other in presence of his husband and wife. The relation is really close as they discuss every detail. Both the families are happy with out any problem. But here you are having a guy who is younger than you. It is all possible chances if he is not able to have relations with you he can cause sure problem in your family life and disrupt his own. so take care
2006-10-11 09:29:36 · answer #2 · answered by lkslalit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest that you should express more love towards your husband in his presence. You call this guy home for lunch/dinner and you start talking about your husband to him. Stay close to your husband and if you get an right opportunity just kiss your husband, or hold his hand in front of this guy. Jealousy is an inborn human quality. Do this very often whenever you get to encounter him. If you bump against this guy alone outside, talk to him, but at the sametime call your husband over the phone and ask him if he needs anything or else tell him that you have found something interesting that your husband will like. Talk, talk , talk and talk about your husband. The message of disinterest towards that guy will automatically will get registered in his head and he will move out of your way.
If this guy moves away from your life then send me sweets atleast an e-sweet to lokesh.kulagatti@timken.com ;-)
2006-10-11 07:28:58 · answer #3 · answered by lokesh_fk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Carry on doing what you are doing. You have made your decision and you must stick to it. The more you try to talk to him, write to him, text him etc. the more he will interpret it as encouragement. Chat to him as a friend, but as soon as he starts talking about love and relationships tell him that he's out of line and end the conversation. He should get the message fairly quickly, but if he doesn't at least you know you're not doing anything to encourage him.
2006-10-11 04:30:16 · answer #4 · answered by stienbabe 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear dear first ask urself do u love him ? If even a small percentage u love him u r bond to make a mistake or say go weak if u r friends. If d feelings r one sided it can b avoided but if feelings grow from both sides its difficult to go away from this relation.
2006-10-11 07:11:15 · answer #5 · answered by misty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will just dig yourself deeper into the hole if you continue this relationship. Just get out of it while you can, else you will ruuin your life and your family's too.
2006-10-11 04:34:27 · answer #6 · answered by Raj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're obviously attracted to him b/c you say you can't resist looking him in the eye. if you keep playing w/ fire, you will eventually get burned. it is best to cut all ties w/ him b4 he catches you having a "weak" moment and you do something that you will regret
2006-10-11 05:07:16 · answer #7 · answered by sweettee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will advice you follow your heart,do you really love your man?If you then dont cheat on him,tell this other guy you love your man and you're sorry for cheating in the past but you dont want to anymore.
But if No,then get ask this new guy if he want to leave his woman for you and if he says yes you guys to get divorse i think you love yourselves more BUT cheating on both your spouse is REALLY a bad and wicked venture to engage in .Thanks.
2006-10-11 05:56:24 · answer #8 · answered by tehinse 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Avoid going the place where u can find him
2006-10-11 04:43:45 · answer #9 · answered by indian beauty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him clearly that you donot want any relationship outside the friendship.If he respects your feelings it is o.k. otherwise stop seeing him because he is after your body.You are yourself a very wise lady, you can handle the situation very well.
2006-10-11 04:37:48 · answer #10 · answered by gurushabad1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋