At 29 with a 3 yr old ,(the usual chores of a working lady,hubby and me work different shifts though we spend the weekends together as much as possible), i have lost interest in physical contact,though i do allow him (dont want to disappoint him).BUt i dont feel "anything"...should i get some medical help from a doctor (i also get very wet fast ..and dont feel anything even when he "plays' around ).Feel very disappointed after such moments ..what shud i do ?
2006-10-10 21:00:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
hiya
i have the same problem
try sex toys thats worked for me a few times
dont give yourself a hard time over it even us mums get tiered
with everything we have to do
take a week away or even a weekend recharge
:0)
2006-10-11 08:36:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should or get away from the child for a night and relax. Im 25 and have the same thing and no kids and we dont work shifts, just think when you are over tired and stressed there is added stresses on top and your sex life suffers! and its most disappointing.
I would speak to a doctor personally and maybe try some nice undies and a weekend away you might feel better after a weekend away just you and the hubby and enjoy yourselves. good luck.xxx
2006-10-10 21:06:05 · answer #2 · answered by caroline17nov 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee, thats hard but are you still attracted to your hubby? It could also be the fact that you spend loads of time apart -you may have emotionally withdrawn from each other too. Try to concentrate too when you "play around" and be honest about not feeling anything this may make him concentrate on pleasing you and try out different things all the time and make it more exciting. Should there be no change I suggest you seek help from the sexperts.
Good luck!
2006-10-10 21:44:18 · answer #3 · answered by Bootilicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try a nice vacation away from kid and work to see if that helps, it could be just anxiety (esp since you want to please him) and a vacation might help you with that as well as other things, if you cant do that or it doesn't work you could talk with your doctor about it, he/she might prescribe you the female version of Viagra to see if that helps you get any satisfaction, as for the wetness, it is your body's response to give you extra lubrication so that the "unwelcomed" intruder does not harm your insides instead of what you would normally experience... it's a good thing
2006-10-10 21:09:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree i think it sounds like 'over-tired, stressed out, too much happening at the moment syndrome.' You need some time out together honey, re-learn what it was about each other you first found irresistible, try to bring those emotions and feelings to the fore, and stop thinking about work, household stuff, kids etc!!! Try going on a date, just the two of you, try and have fun together again! Good luck hope it all works out. xx
2006-10-10 21:48:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a big issue !! You need to think of what you want and not feel obligated. I think its normal for everybody to go off sex at some stage but maybe you should talk to one of thoses help lines!!!
Good Luck!!
2006-10-10 21:03:27 · answer #6 · answered by IloveMarmite 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are just stressed out .this is common in todays fast life. take a vacation with your hubby or meet a counsuller and get help . it can be easly sorted out
2006-10-10 21:27:24 · answer #7 · answered by srini 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do things for your self. if you feel good about your self, you can have good sex. exercise, take time for a long bath. do your make up different (make is louder). get a new hair do..anything that you can do for you, do it
2006-10-10 21:26:47 · answer #8 · answered by rhonda3826 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your doctor you mavbe depressed
2006-10-14 06:42:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should see a doctor. there might be something wrong with you...
2006-10-10 21:04:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋