my clothes at school..anything I wear they make me change. Sometimes they say my shirt is too tight or too low. I don't dress slutty. The boys just like to stare. Are they aloud to make me change just because boys like to look? I mean they look if I wear sweats too...I can't help it <3
Muah!
2006-10-10 20:45:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think you actually know the answer to this. If you are in any doubt, though, ask a friend who you truly trust to be totally honest with you. Teachers generally want an easy life and wuld rather not bother with what you are wearing. Look around and compare your style to other popular people who you admire. But most of all, be honest. If you have a valid case, you could take a presentation to your head of year?
2006-10-10 20:52:09 · answer #1 · answered by youdancin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the school has a dress code, and I don't know of any that don't, apparently you're not meeting it. If 'they' say your shirt is too tight or too low (I'm assuming you mean that you're exposing a good bit of cleavage), and this is happening daily, I think it's time to ask yourself why you continue to wear the same type of clothes. Your idea of 'slutty' and what the teachers/administrators think is 'slutty' are probably two very different things Yes, they are allowed to enforce the dress code. I suggest you learn what that dress code is, and follow it. And stop worrying about whether the boys are staring or not. Remember this little tidbit...leaving something to the imagination is a lot more fun than seeing it all hanging out.
2006-10-11 04:00:30 · answer #2 · answered by hrprrbn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are alot of changes in school since I went but you still have to present yourself in a professional manner since that is what school is for. Teaching you and preparing you for the professional world, because in the professional world the boys dont stare as much as you think or as much as you might want them to. You may think it is okay but I think someone is looking out for your best interest. Guys may stare, but it very well could get out of hand.
I give you compliments on being attractive, but let them find their own attraction about you, not just the clothes. Blue jeans and T-shirt always worked for the girls in my school and it sure worked for the wandering eyes of the boys.
2006-10-11 03:56:02 · answer #3 · answered by Sinister Minister 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The school?
They probably want to exude a certain level of modesty or properness from the students.
2006-10-11 03:48:12 · answer #4 · answered by Knee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The school must hold a higher standard than you do.
2006-10-11 03:52:11 · answer #5 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i love changing. whats your problem?
2006-10-11 03:51:33 · answer #6 · answered by fleur 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋