I get excited whenever i see a sexy figured or picture. But whenever i go for sex with my wife or others, sometimes I notice that my penis is not getting strong enough to penetrate vigina. It gets strong at times, but suddenly something comes to my mind & it looses erection. Again after few effort it erects but it comes down before I put on the condom. It happened with my wife and even a couple of times when I went for paid service. Please help me, I am loosing my self confidence. This problem has started from the last 3/4 months. but sometimes when i am alone & i feel to masterbate it works well. Please tell me some penile exercise so that i can improve its performance & can keep it under my command i.e. whenevr i like it should be ready for action, as it wa earlier. Please help.
2006-10-10 20:43:56 · 22 answers · asked by Raj 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
"But whenever i go for sex with my wife or others"
you deserve it...next time don't cheat on your wife...
2006-10-10 20:46:03 · answer #1 · answered by joy ride 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Viagra will help keep the erection last longer once its up. It's also because your stressed out. Guys tend to lose their erection because they are actually not in the mood at the point and just "having sex" for the hell of it. When your in the mood make sure u let ur partner know ur little problem so she can help too by keeping u in the mood. Plus u need to unwind your worried too much about it. Get your mind off of it. Maybe take a nice bath or do somehting romantic, drink a little wine or margaritas that should always help. Hope this advice helps. Plus u can also ask her to give u oral that always helps too. I also heard somewhere an exercise u can do is when u have an erection place a towel on top of ur penis and hold it there for awhile .
2006-10-10 20:52:07 · answer #2 · answered by tragickingdom 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Congratulations. It means you are getting older.
That is a good trend to continue.
A hard erection is the product of a good blood supply and that just doesn't come as easily as we men age.
I assume you like to "do it" pretty often. Try to do it a little less often with a little better quality. You probably need to rekindle the romance with your wife, and I'd save my money and avoid the paid service (as you so delicately put it.)
Sexual performance is largely psychological. When you were young and saw an exposed female you probably almost had too much of an erection.
Now it's payback time.
Of course, you can always check out those little blue pills, but they are pretty pricey. Diet and exercise and avoiding alcohol can also help you with this little problem of yours.
With a little luck and perserverance you can probably perform for the next thirty or more years--just remember you aren't a teenager any more.
2006-10-10 20:51:18 · answer #3 · answered by Warren D 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
In your condition, you're suffering from muscular erection of the
penis which is softening of the penis when having sex although
it is erected for only a short time.
I suggest you take sidenafil or viagra pills which can help your
penis stay erected for at least an hour during sex.
Consult a doctor before taking it, because there may be some
side effects, like erratic heart beats etc.
2006-10-10 20:57:40 · answer #4 · answered by steplow33 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Or OTHERS??? I've heard that as men get older that they have that problem more often. I've heard that masturbating until you almost *** but then letting go until the urge goes away and then starting up again will help. There are a few other tricks that can work that I saw on HBO(sex inspectors I think. It was a show from England). He felt pressured to perform on command and it caused the problem to be worse. They said that letting having his wife give him guilt free orgasms through masturbation and passive sex (her on top doing all the work) helped. Although you may have trouble getting her to cooperate if she knows you cheat on her. Paying for sex is just another expectation to perform on command. RELAX and concentrate on enjoying all the sensations. A blindfold might help too to reduce distractions.
2006-10-10 20:59:03 · answer #5 · answered by bookworm 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is no exercise. Relax. And buy some Stamina RX. They sell it at a lot of supplement ro ****** stores, or get a prescription for Viagra or Cialis. You're 36- it's completely normal to be going through this.
2006-10-10 20:46:48 · answer #6 · answered by CyndiLauperfan 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Plenty of people in the world, I do not see a reason for obligation to have more. You sound content with the way things are in your life, however I sense an urgency to make a decision on it. Choose not to and see if you still feel comfortable with the decision. Do Not run out and get snipped or anything until you are absolutely sure.
2016-03-18 07:45:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are losing your virility. Unless you take action NOW you will soon be unable to acheive an erection.
You need to go to a young woman and have a se*x session with her. Clearly you are excited seeing beautiful ladies, but when you see your own wife - you dont get excited. (Maybe your wife is old and has lost her figure).
So the solution is to pay some money for a high charging call girl who is beautiful and se*xy. Remember this is a ONE TIME thing. When u r in bed with her - look at her deeply and remember what you see.
Next time when you are about to get in bed with your wife, IMAGINE that it is not your wife, but that call girl. You will get excited remembering those se*xy images.
2006-10-11 01:29:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2014-05-26 12:17:55 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get and stay in good physical health. Exercise a lot. You reached your max sex activity in your early 20's. from then it is down hill. How fast is up to your life style. You never really had full control of what your penis will do.
2006-10-10 20:52:33 · answer #10 · answered by dongeraldd 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
stop having sex with others.. it seems like you are having sex to often.
also. your self life has gotten stale. you need to find something more exciting for you and your wife for sex. Maybe try some kind of get away to a sensual spot. Have sex when your parents are downstairs watching the kids.. have sex on the beach. you need to rekindle your sex life.
2006-10-10 20:50:57 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋