He's only 24, he has a bump the size of a grain of sand on the top of his shaft, under the skin (he's not circumsized), should I tell him it's serious?
2006-10-10 20:35:24 · 15 answers · asked by Aimee 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
In order for you to be this concerned you must have access to some rather large grains of sand.
However, it might or might not be a problem. He should see a doctor.
Wanna know a way to get him to go? Tell him you think it's an STD and refuse to have sex with him until it's been diagnosed and treated. Then (don't) do it.
For his own good he needs to get it checked out by a urologist. It may not be anything, but you both need to know that.
2006-10-10 20:55:48 · answer #1 · answered by Warren D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! It could be an indication of a STD. Check out www.geocities.com for lists of symptoms. Also check out www.webmd.com for a more thorough list of symptoms. Bumps are not unusual and are often benign, but he needs to get it checked out to make sure. Some sexually transmitted diseases, like scabies and others can begin with a raised bump which is a female that has burrowed under the skin and is laying eggs.
What kind of boyfriend doesn't think enough about you to make sure he is not passing along a STD? A boyfriend who is not worth the time of day! You need to get out of the relationship ASAP. Respect yourself even if he doesn't. You need to tell him you are not going to be sexually active with him and the relationship is over. No ifs, ands, or buts.
There are no cures for some STDs, like herpes. You need to rethink being sexually active before marriage, and above all you need to get to a doctor immediately to rule out any STD. You could ruin your chances for marriage to anyone other than someone with the same sexually transmitted disease if you do contract something like herpes. And you will need to tell every man you date that you have it. STD can seriously effect your marriagability, and if an STD is untreated you can end up damaging your fallopian tubes or other parts of your reproductive system leaving your unable to conceive. This is very serious. Please take action for your own sake right now!
2006-10-10 21:06:47 · answer #2 · answered by LadyLgl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be something serious because it is not "normal" and I cant thing of anything off hand that would grow on the top of his shaft that size, however I am not a doctor, but I think you should have him get it checked out or else talk to your doctor about it and see if he/she has any inclinations as to what it might be... although they will most likely tell you to have him get it checked out
2006-10-10 20:40:50 · answer #3 · answered by ClevelandSportsFan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This could be a small wart. Genital warts are caused by a particular strain of the Human Papilloma Virus (HPV). There is a proven causative link between HPV and cervical carcinoma. Don't have unprotected sex until this has been checked out -- unless you want to take a chance with your life!
2006-10-10 21:54:41 · answer #4 · answered by doctor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-10-10 21:28:52 · answer #5 · answered by gentsocar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has this suddenly appeared, or is it something you have discovered on becoming more intimate ?
It is probably nothing to worry about, unless it is getting bigger.
A grain of sand - yeesh. You sure put this guy under the microscope.
2006-10-10 20:48:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if it's hard. yes have him see a doctor. if it's soft and fleshy. it may be a scare. although he's not circumsized.
2006-10-10 20:43:27 · answer #7 · answered by jackindude2001 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
scare him with internet pics of the result of not going for checkups
2006-10-10 20:39:28 · answer #8 · answered by flyassballerchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he has a crabs nest on his shaft. or maybe you should pop that pimple with your teeth
2006-10-10 20:43:32 · answer #9 · answered by fighting 40s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-10 20:42:18 · answer #10 · answered by Matthew Shlmn 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋