we love each other,but at times,he is being selfish,l really love him and cannot stand the suspense,l end up begging him.l really want him to beg me too
2006-10-10 20:23:50 · 5 answers · asked by favourabletreasure 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
beg him for correcting you? beg for what? your question is VERY unclear...
2006-10-10 20:26:17 · answer #1 · answered by Ladeebug71 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a relationship to continue satisfactorily over the long term, both parties have to give and take. It cannot last if it is only one way.
As you have not given any specifics, it is very difficult to advise you fairly. As you mentioned that you love each other, I assume you have accepted his weaknesses. So why the dissatisfaction now? What about your weaknesses?
Look at the situation from both points of view and learn to accept each other's idiosyncracies. Only when we are willing to learn to live with each other's behaviour, through frank and honest communication that relationships will flourish.
Rational discussion instead of begging should be the step to take, don't you think?
2006-10-11 03:35:53 · answer #2 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write down how you feel in a calm way - it may take MANY atempts to say precisely what you want to and then either talk it through with him or give it to him to read... Then accept yourself... Your husband only makes you feel bad if you let him make you feel that way- you are the only one who has access to the thoughts in your head. Its your own self belief that will bring about change.
2006-10-11 04:48:49 · answer #3 · answered by youdancin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Y do u want that? n y do u beg him?? just love him n ignore him wen he makes harsh remarks. Make as if it does not hit u. He will stop making remarks if he sees it does not affect u n will make him repent wen he sees u return his cruelty with love.
2006-10-11 03:29:13 · answer #4 · answered by Lovlyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to quit bein an asshole
2006-10-11 03:29:49 · answer #5 · answered by j rock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋