First of all.My age is 20.I couldn't concentrate on my studies after doing this masterbation.
I usually did it 2 or 3 times per day three years ago. Then I afraid on it and tried to abonden it.But , I couldn't control my sexual feelings that time and again I used to do it but not frequently as in the beginning.Now , I did 1 time per day or sometimes 1 time per week.Sometimes , I wouldn't do it continously for 100 days or 150 days.At that time , I found my semen released during my sleep ...not daily once in 10 days or sometimes once in a week.I have no bad habits other than this.I am afraid now whether my marriage life will get affected? Does doing this masterbation lead to any sexual or venerial diseases. I am enjoying something when doing it but feeling inferiorly after doing this.I am in trouble now.Please guide me in a right path by your answers.
2006-10-10 19:49:01 · 21 answers · asked by Mahe 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Till today no study has proved that masturbation is harmfull to our health in anyway. But considering your rate of masturbation of 2-3 /day although harmless is definitely the cause of worry as it might be indication some psychiatric illness. So consult your doctor about this problem. Secondly as per my own experience meditation will definietly help to overcome this problem.
2006-10-10 20:02:12 · answer #1 · answered by dr sachpw 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here are some figures for you. Studies show that somewhere between 92 and 98% of men and 44 to 62% of women have ever masturbated. Another showed that 60% of men and 40% of women surveyed had done it in the last year. Most doctors and mental health professionals will tell you that there is nothing wrong with masturbation. You cannot catch any disease, nor will it effect your married life unless you do it too much when you get married and ignore your partner. It is a totally normal thing and nothing to feel inferior about. Just don't make it a substitute for sexual relationships with others. Intimacy is an important part of life. Liberate your mind of the old sexual taboos and enjoy yourself!!
2006-10-11 03:20:45 · answer #2 · answered by Larry S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wont catch a disease but use a safe lubricant like KY jelly. I think all guys do it and its a healthy way to get rid of dead sperm. I think knowing that its safe and healthy will go a long way toward helping with the inferiority complex. The semen in your sleep is just a wet dream. All guys (and occasionally girls) deal with that. I'm not sure why but it probably happens when you dream about sex. Women masturbate a lot too and I know because I am one and women talk to each other about these things. I think that it is more unhealthy to not do it. If you still don't feel comfortable masturbating alone, ask your wife to lend a hand.
2006-10-11 03:02:17 · answer #3 · answered by bookworm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not worry man it is a natural thing that happens to guys like us. I am also ur age. I can't explain about the semen released during the sleep cus it also happened to me. But i can surely say that if u dream about having sex in ur sleep u will definitely *** on ur bed but dont worry it is all nature's reason. Don't overdo it. I would recommend once or twice in a week but not in a day. Also i wanted to ask you if u get a headache after some hours after masturbation. Cus i get a mild headache after a few hours. People are also welcome to answer this headache problem.
2006-10-11 03:29:35 · answer #4 · answered by kingdukenukem 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just reduce your frequency.
Try to avoid, mstabation is normal 2-3 in week,
you may get weaker if u doing 3-4 times a day, u need to control.
all the best n enjoy.
instead of finding male partners as suggested by devika, find female and you can enjoy then
2006-10-11 10:05:09 · answer #5 · answered by lil d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww come on! You say you're 20 years old but you still ask these kind of questions? What are you retarded or what? Brother jerk off all you want..its the natural thing to do. There are no side effects of excessive mastubation other than a big grin on your face everytime you've done it. So go ahead and mastubate as much as you like until you get some poor girl to knock around. Enjoy!
2006-10-11 03:02:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As many have said before me, masturba*tion is not harmful. BUT WAIT DONT START YET!
I will recommend that you do this only once in 3-4 days. This will pace your body and help you regenerate what you are losing. Doing it 3-4 times a day will make your body weak and disease prone. Try to do it 2 times a week. That is the perfect frequency.
If you are doing it with another male friend, please dont consume each other's sp*erm. It is better to wash your and your partner's organ properly before and after the activity.
2006-10-11 09:02:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please do not worry
If masturbation was a problem then I have a problem. It is a natural way to overcome stress. Is good for the prostate.
Maybe you are making yourself sore sometimes use a little lubrication, though this may add to your delight.
If you can and want to cut down the number of times you do it a day that's in your control.
Take care of yourself and don't feel guilty it is a natural occurrence. Also shows you are quite healthy.
2006-10-11 08:15:52 · answer #8 · answered by jem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a normal male. It's OK what you do. When semen comes out while you sleep, this is called Nocturnal Emission, or a wet dream. This is also normal.
Your married life will not get affected. You can ask your wife to masturbate you.
This does not lead to any sexual or venereal diseases.
2006-10-11 05:02:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can refer to Dr.Prakash Kothari, our indian eminent sexologist, he will say the behaviour of masturbation is a normal phenomena in humans and it is healthy when it is done in a limited way and not as you mention too many times a day etc.
Definitely it can never hamper your sexual life once you get married and you will be returning to normal sexual behaviour and pattern with your life partner. Masturbation has nothing to do with Venereal discease or the like what you fear.
2006-10-11 03:48:13 · answer #10 · answered by Manicraj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋