Both the guys are my friends and helped me in better way during my bad times.Both have proposed me for marriage. I am confused whom to choose because both are very caring and loving. They both dont know each other. I dont want to hurt any one of them. But i need to take some decision too. M confused who can understand me well.
2006-10-10 19:02:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sometimes the hardest decisions are the ones that bring you the most happiness later on. you just have to buckle down and evaluate your relationships that you share between them both... whichever you think will make you the happiest... will be your answer.
2006-10-10 19:05:55 · answer #1 · answered by llsoinlovell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best bet would be to take some time to yourself, away from both men and the pressure, I mean at least a week or two, and think it through clearly. Perhaps you should wait to decide until you are certain one way or another. You can say you aren't ready yet for that kind of commitment. You don't have to marry either one of them for that matter, even if they are caring and helped you through bad times. Marriage is supposed to be a whole lifetime commitment. Be certain about who you marry. You don't have to be insensitive of course, but you should be straight with them, even if it does hurt. You'll respect yourself more for being honest about your feelings.
2006-10-10 19:22:24 · answer #2 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love either of them, really LOVE them? No then marry neither of them. This wouldn't be confusing if you had strong feelings for either of them. Marriage should be a committment to someone you just can't live without not a decision between two men.
2006-10-10 19:09:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 04:43:40 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jessi, I think you have answered your own question, you are unsure of both. If and when you meet the RIGHT person to marry it will be obvious, you will not even look at another guy, let alone date another!! I think you are confused with good friendship over love. Be flattered they have asked you but gently decline thier offer.
Best of luck.!
2006-10-10 19:26:09 · answer #5 · answered by stevebrit2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
accept both of their proposals and then marry both of them and sell the movie rights to NBC.
2006-10-10 19:05:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love one choose him and let the other down as easily as possible. if you don't love one don't get married just because they are loving and giving problems would come along later.
2006-10-10 19:05:18 · answer #7 · answered by jusme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i noticed you didnt mention love. you said they were loving but you havent said anything as to how you feel as far as loving them,just because someone proposes doesnt obligate you to marry...either one of them.you should marry based on love and committment.
2006-10-10 19:11:22 · answer #8 · answered by seth s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
which one do you love? don't choose over one because of feeling gratitude or guilty. If you wanna be fair don't choose any.Guys will keep coming
2006-10-10 19:07:24 · answer #9 · answered by TheWillBe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you really love them or just care with them?
if you really wanna married with one of them
just choose someone who you really missed if he's not around... or who you can't live with if he dead...
2006-10-10 19:07:35 · answer #10 · answered by Red_aS_blOoD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋