2006-10-10 18:34:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't try.
2006-10-10 18:46:20 · answer #1 · answered by Nep 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to do and the hurt doesn't go away quickly...
but, if you make the decision to "trust" this person again, then you have to let go of the hurt and distrust and just forgive.
If you don't, you will build a "wall" around yourself as a defence mechanism and you'll be constantly suspicious of every move the other person does or says..
First, decide how badly your trust was broken. We all have boundaries, figure out what yours are..then make the decision on whether you "can" ever trust this person again.
take care.
2006-10-10 18:47:44 · answer #2 · answered by gemma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TIme.....Trust isn't given instantaneously the first go around and takes a hell of alot more time to get the second go around. You have to make a commitment to getting it back and never losing sight of that commitment...perserverance and persistency gets you a good ways. I cheated on my boyfriend and it has taken 2 years, a very rough breakup, and alot of depression but I stayed true to being there for him and being the friend that he needed and just last night we had a serious talk and he finally told me that he trusted me....Time and commitment....that's the answer
2006-10-10 19:29:55 · answer #3 · answered by xxsanchabonitaxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is very diificult to get back.
The first step is to forgive. But once you forgive, you can't keep bringing up the situation. You have to pray about it and release it. Start slow. Give the person a chance to earn the trust back. Slowly your walls will come down.
Forgive but don't ever forget.
2006-10-10 18:45:21 · answer #4 · answered by m_harvery 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what caused the trust to be broken. Once broken, trust is difficult to regain. Good Luck ! :)
2006-10-10 18:37:00 · answer #5 · answered by tysavage2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really dont know. i'm into that kind of situation right now. all i know is i loved this person so much and i cant help thinking what this person has done to me. i just keep my mouth shut and never open that topic again in order not to go into any arguments.i accepted the apology and promised for me not to loose this person but deep inside, in hurts so much.it keeps popping in my mind.i know it isnt right but my heart rules my mind.
2006-10-10 18:41:51 · answer #6 · answered by taray 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is very difficult to do, I would say impossible! Would you trust a person again if he / she for example cheated on you?
2006-10-10 18:38:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not possible. trust is like glass. once broken you can not get originality
2006-10-10 18:41:34 · answer #8 · answered by rajan naidu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would like to know if it can be done after one partner has affair. it seems too hard to do after the hurt and betrrayal
2006-10-10 18:37:45 · answer #9 · answered by hamhead 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋