I am so in love with my boyfrined, we will have beeen together six months this weekend, dating since january though. I love him so much, and I like to think I am confident in thinking he loves me too, now I just have to say it. I have been trying for the past 2 months, but get scared he won't say it in return. Should I just go ahead and say it? Keep in mind, most of his relationships don't make it past 4 months, and we are in our twenties... thanks for your replies:) <3
2006-10-10 18:25:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hey don't worry, I feel ya. Im in my twenties aswell and I went through the same thing and you know what? you have to ask yourself what is love? Its funny cause to me the word LOVE dont' really have a meaning. Its only a word to describe your feelings which your real feelings for him is undescribleable. What you two been shareing and going through its basicly deeply in love or beyond that point already in my opinion. I say you go ahead and say it, I think it will make him feel really happy and I think it will help you two move on to the next level good luck :)
2006-10-10 18:33:03 · answer #1 · answered by jason w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say it! What do you have to lose Girlfriend?? I said it first with my boy (I was his first serious relationship)... but hey guess what..?
I'm 23... I've been with my boy for 8 months. It STILL bugs me because I have always had to ask him "do you love me?" to hear him say "yes" and up to this very day I still have to. For a very long time and still some times these days I have doubts, but trust me, if this guy loves you Girl, he will prove it in his own little quirky ways. Men. What can you do? LOL.
My guy shows it to me with thoughtful gestures (like buying my favourite chips just when he pops out for milk and stupid stuff like that). It's the little things that he physically does that show more than words do. Anyone can say I love you... and not even mean it. Good luck with him!!
2006-10-11 01:34:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is always good to hear when someone tell us that they love us ....When you are loving someone you are enjoying the feeling and when you love you just love and never expect it on return...of course it is much better when they love us back but if he scares because you tell him that you love him ...then he does not feels the same and he must just go away from you ...why you want to keep someone that does not feel the same or more than anything it is scared of love ........if I would be you I would wait a little longer or just tell him once and see his reaction
2006-10-11 01:36:58 · answer #3 · answered by Yami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you love him, the first time will be the hardest... he may be struggling with this same issue and it will get it out of the way for both of you guys!!! Good Luck!!!
2006-10-11 01:29:08 · answer #4 · answered by nremtmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK I'VE NEVER BEEN IN LOVE ((JUST TO BE UPFRONT)) BUT IF YOU LOVE HIM GIRL, TELL HIM....DONT SAY IT WHERE U FEEL LIKE UR PRESSURING HIM TO SAY IT ((BY JUST STARING AT HIM AFTER THAT OR MAKING HIM FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE))..JUST BRING UP CASUALLY AND KISS HIM..AND IF HE DOESNT SAY IT BACK, DONT GET DISCOURAGED BECAUSE GUYS HAVE A HARD TIME SAYING THINGS LIKE THAT, JUST STICK IT OUT BECAUSE REMEMBER **YOU'VE LASTED LONGER THAN ALL THE OTHER GIRLS**
2006-10-11 01:29:32 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ Miss Brittany ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey girl, just tell him.
Let him know where you stand, cause there's definately a chance that he feels the exact same way that you do!
2006-10-11 01:30:56 · answer #6 · answered by llsoinlovell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SAY IT if uv been togetha for that long chances r he feels the same way u can do it!
2006-10-11 01:28:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl go for it. The worst emotion is the one not expressed honestly an dopenly.
2006-10-11 01:33:43 · answer #8 · answered by pirategirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋