My bf & I been together a yr in june. We love everything about each other. My 3 kids are an issue as he hasnt bonded with them. his divorce was final last nov mine was this sept due to I didnt have $ to file it. we both are recouperating from alot of debt from the past. he was in a 28 year marriage mine was 13. Is it too soon to consider living together?
2006-10-10 18:20:48 · 6 answers · asked by pirategirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ahh, yea way to early! You are both rebounding, do not settle don't be with a man who doesn't love your children as much as you do! If he hasn't bonded with your children and its almost a year, moving in with him isn't going to make him love your children or make his feelings change. Consider your children's feelings they my feel like he doesn't like them because he hasn't bonded with them or have taken any time with them. Remember you are a package deal! If he loves you he HAS to love your children.
2006-10-10 18:35:40 · answer #1 · answered by sayj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is.....remember men are a little bet more weak in this kind of situations ...let him be byhimself for a while ...do not be affraid to lose him .....give him a chance to feel what it is like to live a single life again ....after a time you will be sure he is looking for you and not because he needs to fill a hole in his heart and I also advise you the same to yourself
2006-10-11 01:27:59 · answer #2 · answered by Yami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let him get to know your kids and bond with them first, you dont want to just spring this on them its going to be hard for them. Take your time, let them bond and go from there.
2006-10-11 01:24:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I woudl say that you will have to prepare and get out of debt.. the least you would want to do is to bother your spouse with debts..
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2006-10-11 01:28:18 · answer #4 · answered by THE ONE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just asking that question alone makes it look like you are not ready yet, only you should know when is the right time
2006-10-11 01:22:54 · answer #5 · answered by Fred K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its too early
2006-10-11 01:34:05 · answer #6 · answered by rajan naidu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋