hey im 24 yrs old and I have never been pergnant I havent used anything ever with my last BF and that was 5years and now im getting married and trying to have a baby with my hubby but we are having a hard time .. I have tried everything I can think of but still no luck .. Ive been thinking that I might not be able to have kids.. but I hope I can if you have any ideas to help me PLEASE let me know ... thanks
2006-10-10 17:46:32 · 6 answers · asked by nobodysangel2469 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
It may be possible that your ex was "barren" - shooting blanks!!!
The chances of having the right body temperature, ovulating and have sex all at the same time are minimal. To have a child, it's close to miraculous if you knew all the points that had to be just right for the fertilisation.
Have said that, I would start by taking folic acid (that's the only necessary vitamin you need) and if you are buggered (stressed from work/physically) take some multivitamins. (never take one vitamin on it's own - apart from soluble vitamins like folic acid and vitamin c - if you take it individually you may end up having a deficiency you didn't have to begin with)
It's unlikely anything is wrong - if you immediately start thinking negatively, you'll stress yourself out and having a baby will take longer ...it could be just a matter of time with this new partner. You need to be particular with intercourse with your timing and your menstrual cycle.
Totally irrelevant to your situation but allow me to jump on the bandwagon for a sec...I'm not one who normally agrees with the freaks that insist on getting a marriage certificate to be a good family but based on what you have typed...I would test the father of the future child - if he cannot commit to a piece of paper (and uses every excuse under the son why it's not necessary to be married then he will most likely leave you on your own with your future child.
Regards
Mia the Self righteous cow....have a look at my life by clicking on my name and reading my situation (who am I to give advice!!!)
2006-10-10 18:59:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to pinpoint ovulation and have frequent intercourse at that time:
The only way for you to know if you are ovulating is to take your basal body temp each morn, same time and before you get up. You should see a pattern in temps that leads up to and after ovulation. You can get the basal thermometer at Wal-Mart for about 8 dollars. I use a wonderful FREE website called Fertilityfriend.com...it graphs your temps for you, keeps track of your fertility signs, tells you when you ovulate and also tells you if there is an implantation dip in your temps. You can also use Ovulation prediction kits, but they only measure your LH surge and give you a ball park time for ovulation...they do not pin point it. Oh, and it is possible to be ovulating while you do not have your period, just like it is possible to have a period and not ovulate.
2006-10-11 01:12:28 · answer #2 · answered by **KELLEY** 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To get pregnant you must have sex on a day that your eggs are being released.
After the 3rd day from the day that menses started put a thermometer into your mouth and check your body temperature every morning before you start turning in bed. The best time is at about 4 a.m. Maintain a chart. You will find that on one day the body temperature drops from 1/2 degree to one degree. This is the day that your eggs are being released. If you want to get pregnant this is the day that you must have sex. Tell your husband to ejaculate on his inward thrust so that the sperms will shoot deep inside.
After having sex you must stay in bed for about 30 mins with your knees bent up with a pillow under your buttocks so that the sperms will not pour out - to enable them to travel up.
Get your husband to save his sperms in the testacles for at least 3 days before sex to enable them to mature well to do their job.
2006-10-11 08:09:41 · answer #3 · answered by donp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See a dr...they're the only ones to tell you for sure...however I totally agree with the first guy's answer, too. Get married first, then concentrate on having a baby. Good luck!
2006-10-11 01:19:57 · answer #4 · answered by farmersdaughter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best thing for conception is a marriage certificate. Try that first, then connect thereafter again when you are more relaxed and ready to be an honest woman and set a moral example as a mother. Don't get the cart before the horse or you'll be sorry. Ask the mothers of the bastard children whose boyfriends had a roll in the sack before he was killed in some freak accident somewhere. It happens! Don't let it happen to you.
2006-10-11 01:07:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
it will happen when least expected . my opion?
2006-10-11 01:40:30 · answer #6 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋