I have, several times, and hadn't any idea they were gay, until I would then be rejected or discouraged to know I didn't have a chance.
Any stories to share?
2006-10-10 17:46:00 · 10 answers · asked by denh 4 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Gay men dress well, smell good, are funny, good friends--why wouldn't they be attractive to both men and women--like you. I wouldn't worry about it.
2006-10-10 17:48:22 · answer #1 · answered by retorik75 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you need to work some of these issues out in therapy, there is so much guilt/low self esteem that surrounds you and your sexual self, I think that trying to find your orientation through that would be very difficult. I think you should try to find yourself, and pamper yourself, and stop worrying about labels and how you appear to others. Try getting some therapy, and not dating for a while, maybe get makeover, a puppy, something just for You. If you feel like a teenager, perhaps its because you never found yourself as a teen. Good luck.
2016-03-28 04:26:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure gay men are fun. They often share similar intreasts and they are not trying to get in your pants every second your together. I love gay men
2006-10-10 17:49:08 · answer #3 · answered by Sandra K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes and some i knew they were gay and others i didn't....
keep in mind that when your attracted to someone it means the person has something you lack in yourself. try to figure out what that is and then see if your still attracted to gay men
2006-10-10 18:04:23 · answer #4 · answered by giggling.willow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, I have never been attracted to a gay man. Well... I guess my tap dance teacher was pretty hot. But his lisp and limp wrist didn't really turn me on. I wanted to set him up with my gay roommate. :)
2006-10-10 17:49:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gay men know what men like just like lesbian women know what women like so how can you really compete? I once tried to perform oral sex on a lesbian girl and she stopped me because she said I didn't know what I was doing. Other women said I was the best they ever had when it came to oral sex, so you tell me????
2006-10-10 17:57:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No stories, but hey! They are the perfect boyfriend. Except that they prefer dudes to you. They like shopping, have great style, are sensitive...
2006-10-10 18:08:06 · answer #7 · answered by Nicki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have found myself attracted to a few gay guys.They can be such good friends.
2006-10-10 17:57:55 · answer #8 · answered by tiff 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then, you should watch out your appearance and dressing.
2006-10-10 19:49:05 · answer #9 · answered by zodiaccyber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he is then he is not attracted to you sojust leave him
2006-10-10 18:38:56 · answer #10 · answered by bu735seif 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋