So i work with this girl and i help her move into her new house. She askes me to get her some music for her computer. so im up till like 1am getting her what she wants.Then she says she wants more. well she has a varied music taste so i said you could just comeover to my apartment and pick what you want.(she didn't like all the music i got her). She keeps telling me she'll come over so i plan my day around it.Clean my apartment everything. Well today marks the 3rd day she'd said she'd come over.She didn't(hence why im here).she also said she was busy and then later she said she was at her secret spot somewhere relaxing and said its beautiful up here (yeah,real busy)What the heck do i say? quit wasting my time? I still have to work with her and don't want to have this tension, but im getting tired of having my time wasted.
2006-10-10 16:45:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you were more than fair you got the first cd done for her and of course you like her im sure so your hoping things would advance but she seems to be using you., and as you said you have to work with her so you don't want to make waves
Next time she asks say you know what so and so sounds good im a bit busy for the next week. why don't you tell me when you have time give me a call and we'll arrange a good time for both of us don't be at her beck and call. You've waited enough for her and she's let you down 3 times now.. put the ball in her court and let her show some action now.
If she's not interested the heck with doing all this for her she's only using you.
Good luck
2006-10-10 17:30:04 · answer #1 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time she says she is gonna come over, sit her down and explain to her that you have said three other different occasions and i had my time worked around for you to come over and you no show three times!! Unless you're serious this time about coming over don't even ask me if you can or are!! Tell her that you are tired of making plans for her to come over and she no shows cause she's at her secret spot!! Let her know you're upset about this and you aren't gonna put up with this anymore!! If she is gonna come over then make sure she sticks to it!!
2006-10-11 03:57:23 · answer #2 · answered by Angie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit expecting her to come over... don't bother to clean your house <<
Sounds like she only cares about you doing favors for her... don't waste your time on her.
2006-10-10 16:54:59 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just bite the bullet and tell her you have differt taste in music than she does.Then tell her your are to busy to help her at this time.
2006-10-10 16:52:42 · answer #4 · answered by sweetcheeks39@verizon.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and learn from your experience.. Ummmmmmmm she was using you! Learn to have friends who appreciate your time.
Maybe her secret spot is UP HER OWN ***?
2006-10-10 16:50:06 · answer #5 · answered by kitkatish1962 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should explain to her that if she doesnt' make up her mind about going to get her cd she is not going to get it, also if she does come over don't answer the door and see how it makes her feel
2006-10-10 16:48:45 · answer #6 · answered by Luis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She isnt at her secret spot, her fingers were rubbing her secret spot. Offer to rub up her secret spot for her and she will make wonderful rythym as she blows
2006-10-10 16:47:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is USING you.....tell her to get her own damned music and whatever else. You have a life and I suggest you just tell her to back away...and leave you alone.
2006-10-10 16:56:11 · answer #8 · answered by BITE ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is playing wth ur heart buddy. so if i were u, i will keep my cool. let her decide when and ask for a schedule. she dont come in 5 min, ur out of the house...
2006-10-10 16:48:06 · answer #9 · answered by The Punisher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like a user to me! Just tell her your equipment broke...lol...and you can no longer make music!
2006-10-10 16:48:50 · answer #10 · answered by funlady6632@yahoo.com 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋