one of my best friends got out of a 4 year relationship a few months ago. they have a kid together. he just met this girl that is a few years older than him, his sisters best friend. she is 27 and has 5 kids! not that there is anything wrong with having 5 kids...but her ex-husband is prior army and got kicked out for being looney. they havent even been divorced a year. she finally just got her own place. i dont even think she works?
anyhoo, they started sleeping together a couple of weeks ago (not to mention that sh's not on birth control..hello! 5 kids = very fertile). now their seeing each other. im mad because my friend asked for my advice and i told him that i thought it was a bad idea considering her current situation. im really pissed because he's going to school and has a good job. i really think that he can do better. plus, he really has no idea what he is getting himself into! im so pissed that i almost dont want to talk to him for a while. what would you do? any advice?
2006-10-10 16:42:58 · 6 answers · asked by portuguese_tease 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
There really isn't anything you can do. Just explain it to him the best you can. But, thats about it. If you tell him to dump her, he might end up straying from you instead., But tell him to watch her behavior, she might just be looking for someone with money. She could also be a great woman that is good for your friend. Get to know her a little better. You'll figure it out. But don't shut him out of your life just because you don't like his girl friend.
2006-10-10 16:49:48 · answer #1 · answered by collegebusygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
till she has had sex she isn't pregnant. If the "stuff" on your hand touches oxygen (air) then it may't get her pregnant. rigidity motives previous due classes, I went through this. a pair years in the past I had an exceedingly perplexing chop up with my ex and my era develop into 2 weeks previous due, i concept I had to be pregnant, notwithstanding it develop into in hardship-free words previous due because of the rigidity. clarify this to her so she will be able to quiet down, even as she relaxes, that's going to go back.
2016-10-16 04:25:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand that hes your friend a good one at that but some times we have to just mind our own buisness maybe you like your friend in a different way all i can tell you is try to be supportive even if it bothers the **** out of you try to be there for him if you really care you would be there anytime he needed you to be and please dont be judgemental because obviously their is something in this girl that he likes enough to want to be with her ...good luck and i hope everything turns out in your favor ....M
2006-10-10 16:49:29 · answer #3 · answered by Maria M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he IS an adult and no matter what you say, he will still do what he wants. He knows the situation with her, and he knows what causes pregnancy....so, if he gets her knocked up, then it is on HIM...
Don't worry about it. He isn't. Plus, he really doesn't want your negative thoughts...he wants your approval....
2006-10-10 16:48:26 · answer #4 · answered by BITE ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be there when it all falls down and youll be safe
2006-10-10 16:45:43 · answer #5 · answered by nathan b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-10 16:44:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋