When ever I go over to my husbands house to drop off my daughter he always wants to talk about things and know when im commin back. How do I tell him I might not be comming back and that I want to move on? He still loves me and says he wants to work on things and he promises this time he is going to change but I dont beleave him and I just want to be left alone right now
2006-10-10 16:39:56 · 7 answers · asked by kristal930 k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just cowgirl-up and tell him!
Why would you want to drag this thing out??
It makes no sense.
If he truly loved you, he would have made the changes when
it counted. He is just lonely and will make a short term change,
but will go back to his loathsome self in no time. Be strong,
tell him, stay away.
2006-10-10 16:53:40 · answer #1 · answered by Crosscheck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be a good idea to have someone else drop your daughter off to him from now on. tell him that you need your space and to give you time. but dont just let him hang either tell him you will call him once a week to see how he is doing so he knows you still care.
2006-10-10 23:44:00 · answer #2 · answered by Twilla97 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe pick a "neutral" Place to drop of your daughter...then if he starts asking questions that you don't want to answer just tell him that you need time right now...and that you are not sure if you WANT to try again....but by him pushing it all he is doing is making sure that you don't.
best of luck
2006-10-10 23:49:17 · answer #3 · answered by oldman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just tell him,but if you have never given him a second chance then maybe you should,but if you have and he screwed up again ......then just tell him you are happier without him,but would like to remain friends because of your daughter
2006-10-10 23:52:48 · answer #4 · answered by JENNIFER D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be up front and honest but also be selfish not only for you but for your kids too
2006-10-10 23:53:49 · answer #5 · answered by nathan b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about ur family, u need to keep it together....maybe he will change...
2006-10-10 23:48:15 · answer #6 · answered by Ashlee_Hbiba 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just tell him.....
2006-10-10 23:44:06 · answer #7 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋