2006-10-10 16:27:25 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Well, if I speak my mind it tends to get me into trouble because i don't sugar coat things. When I bite my tongue, I get into trouble because I'm not being supportive..."sigh". I guess I have yet to find the best solution.
2006-10-10 16:32:31 · answer #1 · answered by Goddess Kitty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the problem. Sometimes it is better to wait. I have to weigh whether or not it is worth it. Try to maintain, and let myself regain perspective. On the occasions when I do decide to speak up, I am better able to handle the confrontation because I have given myself time to understand that while I need to make myself heard, there is a good possibility that the situation will remain unchanged. I am talking aobut problems that involve other people or institutions, such as work... and I am very very good at explaining my point of view. But many times I decide that my peace of mind is of more worth to me than being right is. But, if I have a personal problem, or jsut feeling blue or whatever, I always get it off my chest by talking with a friend.
2006-10-10 16:33:52 · answer #2 · answered by Hey Polly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dad says 2 things about that
1 count to ten first
2 it better to have people think you a fool, then open your mouth and remove all doubt
i like the godfather movie where the director insulted the GFather's lawyer and the next morning the horses head was in his bed
Me, I'd rather not get all jacked up. I like to think it through to make certain the jobs done right Somewhere in the middle of all this you'll make the right decision Remember once it's out ther you can't take it back.
2006-10-10 16:34:55 · answer #3 · answered by huh? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bite my tongue until I have it right then I speak my mind..
2006-10-10 16:30:15 · answer #4 · answered by Ken and Wendy M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the nature of the problem.
There are certain problems that need silent contemplation. Nobody but you can resolve them. There are others which require external help and guidance - at the least moral support. In such cases, speak out to people whose wisdom and judgment you trust.
Hth.
2006-10-10 16:35:16 · answer #5 · answered by ssjagrawal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I speak my mind with no holding back which can be a good thing but at the same time a bad thing.
2006-10-10 16:30:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the problem but normally speak my mind.
2006-10-10 16:29:52 · answer #7 · answered by Cindy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I speak my mind. Who cares what other people are thinking, it makes me feel better.
2006-10-10 16:29:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well me i speak up on really important things but sometimes i hae to bite my tongue because i know what i would say would be worng!
2006-10-10 16:29:28 · answer #9 · answered by heres to all the pretty words 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I wish I could bite my tongue sometimes...
If something is bothering me, I usually cannot hold it in.
2006-10-10 16:29:32 · answer #10 · answered by misjes2000 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋