what do you think? my dad passed on this is how i feel?

Question

saying goobye to you was the hardest thig in this world
seeing your face every time my eyes close at night
knowing that the chances of seeing you again is practically a myth
remembering the way my heart broke into a million peices when i found out your fate hoping it was all a lie
wondering if there such thing as heaven
crying into my hands every night
not being able to answer why
going on with out you for the rest of my life
asking for a sign
and the hardest thing of all
not getting one
the fear of forgetting you when the pain will hurt forever

Answer 1

my heart breaks for you.i,too,lost my father.it was the most painful,traumatic thing i ever had to go through.
i,too,wonder if my dad is in heaven.i like to think that he is.i hope he is.i hope your dad is in heaven,too.and one day,sometime in the far,distant future,i hope you'll be together again.i'm sure your dad knows,how much you miss him and love him.and i'm sure he misses you and loves you just as much.
i can't say,that the pain ever completely goes away.it's been 21 years since i lost my dad.and it still hurts very,very badly,not having him with me.
i do something that really helps me.since i believe that my dad is in heaven,i talk to him.if i feel stressed out or nervous or upset,i tell him how i'm feeling.and it really helps me to calm down,and feel better about things.
don't listen to people who say things like,''you can't talk to the dead.and they can't communicate with you,either.''these are ignorant,judgmental people who don't know anything.my response to them is,''oh,you really think that the dead remain dead forever?well,my belief is,that after this life,we all go on to another existence.we all go on to live life somewhere else.and my father,is NOT dead.just because he passed on from this world,doesn't mean that he's dead somewhere else.i believe very,very strongly,that he is alive and well up in heaven.and he sees me,he hears me when i talk to him,and he communicates back to me.i smell a real sweet,powdery scent in the air.i believe that's a sign from him,telling me that he's with me.and he loves me.''
if you do the same,and start talking to your dad,and you smell some kind of scent,or you receive some other kind of sign,i believe that might comfort you.your dad will use something that gets your attention,something that he knows you will like.my dad uses the kind of scent,that he knows i really like.your dad could use a song,the wind could blow in your face,the sun could shine down on you,whatever.as long as it's something that you like.he'll use something that interests you,to get your attention.
when you receive these signs that he's with you,i can tell you,it is such a wonderful feeling.i believe my father speaks to me daily.he even appeared to me in a dream once.since i've been receiving these signs,i've felt more peace and joy in my heart.knowing how much my father really does love me.and that he's always with me,no matter what.i hope you and your dad,will have that same kind of relationship.because your father really isn't gone.he's still with you.and i believe it will fill him with great joy,once you start talking to him,and inviting him into your daily life.

Answer 2

the chances of seeing your dad again are not a myth! if you can have the faith enough to beleive in God the way countless millions of other people do you will see your father again. and oh yeah, millions of people can't be wrong. beleiving in God means doing the best things in life that you can, living the way that you know in your heart is the right way. Death is a part of life and everyone must be there at some point, you and I are no exception. Live the rest of your life the way that God and your father want you to and I promise you will see him again. Beleive this from somebody who is not very good but I ask God for help when I really need it and it is there. I am not a religion freak or anything, I just figured things out.

Answer 3

There is such a thing as Heaven. And all you have to do is have just a little faith and you'll get there. If you really want to know more, ask me and I'll help you. If your dad went to heaven, i'll try to see if i can help you see him again.

Answer 4

I'm sorry about your sad loss. Your dad would have been proud of your lovely poem.
Just remember your Dad will always be alive in your heart & the hearts of all who remembers him
all the best

Answer 5

Im very sorry to hear about your father passing away