seperated for 8 months hasnt seen his 4 young children 8,6,5,3 missed b-days and all, we went for custody in aug. he had the gall to ask for joint custody after not seeing them for over 4 months prior he didnt get it but he is supposed to get them every sat and sun from 9-2 and he hasnt still seen them i want to know if i were the one not letting him see them i would be held in contempt of the custody agreement what does he get by not upholding his end of the custody agreement?
2006-10-10 16:23:36 · 6 answers · asked by juliette t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well he probably fells suicidal and less than a man seeing how his world probably bottomed out if he develops a drug or drinking probleme this could be warning sign
2006-10-10 16:31:23 · answer #1 · answered by tonytorono 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has the right to see his kids and if he doesn't he is not in contempt. You refusing him to see kids is contempt.
You can go back to court and show he is not seeing his children. You might get more support because of it but you wont get much more.
Separated for 8 months. Not knowing the reason why I might guess he is either running around and doesn't care or he is so depressed he cant handle seeing you or the children at this time.
Alot of times it is because they are depressed and don't know how to handle life at this moment.
2006-10-11 03:59:55 · answer #2 · answered by Mit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he gets 2 miss his kids growing up, the fun they hve at their bday parties, & he also gets 2 miss the kids missing him, wondering where dad is, & is it their fault that their parents r no longer 2gether. i hope u told them that the divorce has nothing 2 do with them, & PLEASE no matter how much of a bastard he is, DO NOT bad mouth him in front of the kids., when they grow up, they can hve their own opinions of him. id also look into some counseling 4 them. get on with ur life, he s obveously gotten on with his. but, 4 the kids sake, i d give him 1 call, telling him his kids miss him. if u dont hear frm him or c him, then he s made his decision.make sure he keeps up his child support, 2.
2006-10-10 23:41:25 · answer #3 · answered by big foot 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to stick to the court agreement. But you can document this, with witnesses, go back to court, and file for sole custody. It will be a hard battle though. Document everything!
2006-10-10 23:37:48 · answer #4 · answered by Sad-Dad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to speek with your lawyer. he should be held in contempt as he asked for joint but cant even see them the little bit of time he does get. find out if you can have full custody only giving him visitation on your terms and with an apprpriate amunt of time notice. try to get him in trouble with the courts. its the only way this dead beat will grow up and take responsability!!!
2006-10-10 23:28:45 · answer #5 · answered by evilella 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He must have some kids with another woman on his own already. Do not worry about him visiting your kids just take care of your kids and bring them up well. One day, he will come crawling back wanting to see them.
2006-10-10 23:28:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋