my husband is a ship captain, the last time he was with me was 4 months and we tried to have a baby. we consulted an ob gyne and we had work up. i take in fertility pills for two months. were both ok as checked by the doctors. and still no baby. he wll come back this coming january 2007 and i really want to have a baby before he leaves again for work. pls help me. thank you.
2006-10-10 16:18:29 · 16 answers · asked by sweetygirl 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
get the OvaCue ( http://zetek.net/ ) it will help you pinpoint your ovulation. If you get it right away, you'll get an idea of your cycle, and know when is the time to turn yourselves into rabbits, if you know what I mean.
Also, after sex, put a pillow under your hips and stay like that for about 1/2 hour. It will help his little guys make it to goal.
2006-10-10 16:25:56 · answer #1 · answered by Delphine F 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not to be rude, but why would you want to conceive now if your husband is never home? Wouldn't want to wait till maybe he will be home more often to share in the joy and help raise the baby? There is no quick way, if you are taking fertility pills, that is about all you can do. Your husband if not already, should wear boxers not briefs. Just keep trying, it will happen when you least expect it, IF IT IS MEANT TO BE. Don't get discouraged! I wish you both the best.
2006-10-10 23:23:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The only way for you to know if and when you are ovulating is to take your basal body temp each morn, same time and before you get up. You should see a pattern in temps that leads up to and after ovulation. You can get the basal thermometer at Wal-Mart for about 8 dollars. I use a wonderful FREE website called Fertilityfriend.com...it graphs your temps for you, keeps track of your fertility signs, tells you when you ovulate and also tells you if there is an implantation dip in your temps. You can also use Ovulation prediction kits, but they only measure your LH surge and give you a ball park time for ovulation...they do not pin point it. Oh, and it is possible to be ovulating while you do not have your period, just like it is possible to have a period and not ovulate.
2006-10-10 23:26:53 · answer #3 · answered by **KELLEY** 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To get pregnant you must have sex on a day that your eggs are being released.
After the 3rd day from the day that menses started put a thermometer into your mouth and check your body temperature every morning before you start turning in bed. The best time is at about 4 a.m. Maintain a chart. You will find that on one day the body temperature drops from 1/2 degree to one degree. This is the day that your eggs are being released. If you want to get pregnant this is the day that you must have sex. Tell your husband to ejaculate on his inward thrust so that the sperms will shoot deep inside.
After having sex you must stay in bed for about 30 mins with your knees bent up with a pillow under your buttocks so that the sperms will not pour out - to enable them to travel up.
Get your husband to save his sperms in the testacles for at least 3 days before sex to enable them to mature well to do their job.
2006-10-11 08:10:44 · answer #4 · answered by donp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
were you on bith control before? If so that may be what is keeping you from getting pregnant. Ask the doctor if you put that into consideration. If you know for a fact that there is nothing wrong with either of you, just wait and your time will come.
2006-10-10 23:23:34 · answer #5 · answered by laranita82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try going to the chiropracter before he comes home next time. The last time I had my pelvic bones aligned by the chiropracter he told me if i wasn't planning on more children Not to have sex for a while. I don't know what this has to do with it. Talk to one and see.
2006-10-10 23:28:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to parentscenter web site and they have a calander to conceive by...you fill in all the information about your periods etc..and it spits out to you a list of 12 months of "TIMES TO CONCEIVE"
I used this almost 4 yrs ago...and on the 5th month of me TRYING I got pregnant with Joey ..he'll be 3 in Feb. GOOD LUCK!!! AND ENJOY THE "TIMES TO CONCEIVE" LOL
2006-10-10 23:21:41 · answer #7 · answered by just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying. Just let it happen. You and he are putting yourself under very sressful conditions. Just enjoy being with each other without reaching a goal if you will. It will happen when you least expect it to. Children are gifts not commodities.
2006-10-10 23:24:40 · answer #8 · answered by Mae G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, have sex more often. If you can't wait to have a child, it's either: 1. Have sex with another man and tell to your husband that he's the father or 2. Buy a baby in ebay...
2006-10-10 23:23:06 · answer #9 · answered by sirius_black2329 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Make love after the 13th day of your menstruation period, do have sex for 2 days and rest for 3 days(meanin' no sex at all) and do make love again after.Be sure also that both of you are not stressful and tired. It does work with my office mate....Goodluck
2006-10-11 00:12:28 · answer #10 · answered by josie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋