well im not that that jealous..but how do you not how to be soo jealous of like little things.. umm say a bf or gf has this ex that you think is more better looking than you..and your always thinking in the top of your head that they probly do still have something for eachother..i mean because when you were on a break with your bf or gf ..your bf or g/f goes to that one person and tries to flirt with them..but then still misses you..i dont know where im going with this..but how do i ignore the "grudgy" feeling?
2006-10-10 16:11:27 · 10 answers · asked by stefani 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
learn to trust your other half cause that is the only way around jealousy. you should remember he is with you and he choose you, after you seeing his gorgeous exes, you should be proud cause you outfox them. you should have faith in yourself, maybe he see something fabulous or extraordinary on you much better than his exes? did you consider that you must possess something that they never have?
2006-10-10 16:19:58 · answer #1 · answered by salome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. I am just learning that your significant other is going to do what they want. IF they love you then they will be true to you and there is nothing to worry about. I am often scared that I am not the only one but i know in my heart that I am. After all if they are with you and not the ex then there is something good with that picture.
2006-10-10 23:21:04 · answer #2 · answered by kmylander03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you need to be more secure in yourself. You shouldn't obsess about people looking better, you are who you are and that's all. About being on a break.....that's usually the end of the relationship. Taking a break is a way of breaking up without actually saying it.
2006-10-10 23:15:56 · answer #3 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i used to have severe jealousy. but when i started taking an antidepressant, it went away. Now i still have alittle but its nowhere near what it was! Im not saying your depressed, just that the antidepressant helped me alot.
2006-10-10 23:19:37 · answer #4 · answered by Crissy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a natural human instinct of which some are more than others depending on how much self-esteem they have. the more jealous a person is, the less they trust themselves.
2006-10-10 23:16:31 · answer #5 · answered by hollywood71@verizon.net 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If Love would Not exist, Jealousy would not exist either.
2006-10-10 23:18:30 · answer #6 · answered by Latino_Lifestyle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. Love is about trust
2006-10-10 23:14:49 · answer #7 · answered by Scott G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant, that s just how you. if it bothers you that much, ask him for you if he can tone it down a bit, because their relationship makes you uncomfortable, communication, goodluck
2006-10-10 23:18:07 · answer #8 · answered by sonny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be happy for what you have and don worry about small stuff
2006-10-10 23:15:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be happy
2006-10-10 23:13:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋