7 Months And Still Trying ( getting Very Frusterated ) What To do?

Question

i no people keed saying relax but y is it takeing so long, to young healthy people today is day 6 of my cycle and when u go onto those websites that say put in your days of cycle i dont no how many days to put in sum times my cycle is 28,27,30 and this months 24 days what do i put in ? will i ever get pregnant

Answer 1

Yea, people like to say relax , don't they. It's kind of hard when your healthy, you desire to be pregnant, and all these wackjobs, and young teens are popping them out like pez. Add to that all the helpful people who have to inquire everytime you see them "no baby yet?". After 7 months you should be seeing a fert.specialist. They can get you charting for starters, although you can do that on your own anyway, Maybe start you on a cycle of clomid, or start you looking at other medical proceedures. As one person mentioned, adoption is an option, but probably not yet for you. That's the route we went after 6 years of ttc. Regardless, just have lots of sex, in lots of places, and don't lose sight of the person you fell in love with and want to be with, hopefully you'll win the baby lottery, best wishes.

Answer 2

Stress can prevent one's body from becoming pregnant. Relax, try new things with your significant other. Don't think of sex as a chore to make a baby. Enjoy yourself along the way and you might get pregnant sooner than you think. Personally, I don't get all of those cycle days and stuff. Just have sex the few days right before your period. Or every day if you feel like it. The first method worked for me, and the second for my best friend. Good luck!

Answer 3

I went through the same problem but mine was a little bit crazier. I had two children and decided that I wanted to have another child. So me and my husband started trying to have another child. We tried for two years trying and buying anything under the sun and we finally said we cant have children and excepted it. Then 3 months later I started feeling sick and went to the doctor and found out I was 2 months pregnant I had him in 2004 got on the shot 9 months later I was pregnant again even on the shot. I finally asked the doctor what changed and the doctor told me worrying about having a baby caused me to be stressed and stress delays pregnancy so stop worrying and you'll get pregnant trust me i know

Answer 4

To get pregnant you must have sex on a day that your eggs are being released.

After the 3rd day from the day that menses started put a thermometer into your mouth and check your body temperature every morning before you start turning in bed. The best time is at about 4 a.m. Maintain a chart. You will find that on one day the body temperature drops from 1/2 degree to one degree. This is the day that your eggs are being released. If you want to get pregnant this is the day that you must have sex. Tell your husband to ejaculate on his inward thrust so that the sperms will shoot deep inside.

After having sex you must stay in bed for about 30 mins with your knees bent up with a pillow under your buttocks so that the sperms will not pour out - to enable them to travel up.

Get your husband to save his sperms in the testacles for at least 3 days before sex to enable them to mature well to do their job.

Answer 5

I understand how you feel, but if trying to go by your cycle is not working maybe you should see a specialist. They help me and I am 26 weeks pregnant. They were able to monitor my cycle and tell me when to do it, I know that sounds crazy but it helps a lot. Talk to a specialist and a little prayer would not hurt. Good luck

Answer 6

I know when people say just relax, it drives me crazy!! We have been trying to conceive for 18 months, and we have just started our first cycle of clomid, so fingers crossed.

Just average out your days, I would say average for you is 28 days. A great website to check out for a calculator would be www.babycenter.com

You normally ovulate 14 days before you start your period. Other things to do would be to watch your cervical mucus, and always check your basil body temperature every morning to know when you surge.

If you don't already have it, I would read "Taking charge of your Fertility" It is great!! Good Luck!!

Answer 7

I'd advise on seeing your physician, or even better an ob/gyn. They'll be able to answer your questions more fully than an Internet forum. Though from what I understand it is hard to get pregnant than it is made out to be in health classes, so keep trying in the mean time. Good luck, and I hope you are successful soon.

Answer 8

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Answer 9

LOVE,.....i had trouble to..took me 5mnths to concieve.... then a wise man told me this.....From the first day of your period...say today...(wednesday)...count 10 days...make it next friday(include the day you start).have sex each day for 5 days...and then see 5 weeks... normal cycled females only fall pregnant 4 days a months so you probably miss calculating the critical time......even if you bleed for 6 days...count 10 from the day you start and have sex from 10 to 15. (just incase u a slow releaser)..so 5 days of sex each month...it worked for me i had a baby boy in may 06....try it for yourself...cant hurt!!! or go talk to you GP..and if you dont like what they say see a new one!
Let us know how it goes...GL!

Answer 10

well first u have to relax if u think about it alot it won't happen. then u have to check what is slowing the process down. 4 ex: smoking is bad if ur trying to get pregnant, but i've heard drinking some coffee can help.. try it :) if i find out more i'll let u know