the Worse part is HEr parents Trusted her ALOT now i dont want her to be blamed as well WE had sex because WE hada BIG FIGHT AND SHE WANTED ASSURENCE IM CONFUSED AND I THINK IT'S EARLY NOW TO HAVE AN BABY PLS CAN ANYONE GIVE ME ADVICES WITH NO REGRADING PHRASE
2006-10-10 15:58:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Well, if she is pregnant... please be supportive and a responsible daddy. If she isn't, take her to the local clinic and get her on Birth Control ASAP.
2006-10-10 16:00:32 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow...good luck with everything. Its so much more complicated than anyone ever wants to admit when you start having sex. Its so wonderful and thats why we all want it but children should always be something that you wanted and planned for- not an accident. The cool thing tho is that you can choose to make it a good situation. It may seem horrible for awhile but be patient with her, this is even scarier for her. Dont worry about her parents, they'll be okay- its just difficult for her parents to see their daughter go thru something she's not ready for. Start looking at ways to take care of the baby, insurances, do you have a job? Look into whether or not she is going to give the baby up for adoption, how you feel about staying together..so many questions you need to think about. Even if it turns out she's not pregnant, you will have that stuff sorted out and maybe the next time around, you can be more careful? :) Dont worry, its going to be okay, lots of people have made it work before and you can too!
2006-10-10 16:06:00 · answer #2 · answered by mkmomma 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok first things first... calm the F*ck down..... think about what u want for ur future... if ur a teenager its best to stay in school and maybe get a job to help pay for supplies for the baby.. and when u find out that she is pregnant then tell ur parents and get it over with. it might be hard but its better to let it off ur chest now instead of having it be a big surprise later. and maybe they will help u out once they are done yelling.. if they do. and give the girl support because she will be stressed out probably more then u because she's the 1 holding the child and she might need help telling her parents.. anouther thing... if her fathers in the room make sure he isnt holding a shotgun. lol.
2006-10-10 16:23:18 · answer #3 · answered by Dont get Infected 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is, it's not like you can undo it. And her parents will probably be ANGRY, but they'll eventually get over it as long as you step up and be a man. Make sure you take care of your responsibilities always, and you'll earn their respect.
Look at it this way: some little person may have picked YOU as its parents. That's the greatest form of flattery. Whatever happens between you and momma, put the baby first always. This could be your legacy.
And if it turns out to be a false alarm, learn from this kind of fear and be more careful next time.
2006-10-10 16:02:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really hope for your sake she is not pregant.. how old are you anyway? you sound way too young to be having a baby, but in any case she is , just be supportive and be a good daddy!! Her parents are going to be unbelievably angry but hopefully they will get over it, what she need to know if she is pregnant is that you are going to stick around and help with the baby and support it and love it. just be responsible no matter how old you are, but if she is not, then learn to use a condom and get her on the pill it is both of your responsibilities, if you are going to have sex be ready to deal with the consequences of it.... best of luck to you both.....
2006-10-10 16:13:08 · answer #5 · answered by nascar_cr8zy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens alot that parents put their trust in their children. You have to learn from life's experiences. All you can do is pray that she isn't. If you wish to continue having sexual intercourse I recommend using a condom and/or having her go to a free clinic for birth control. I am sure there is a planned parenthood there near by, or something like one.
2006-10-10 16:03:38 · answer #6 · answered by laranita82 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
CONDOMS dude wtf in case you have been large sufficient to have intercourse you ought to be large sufficient to take the accountability of the newborn. Now if shes not prego then i desire you adult males found out your lesson adn not do it back a minimum of not with out secure practices.
2016-10-19 04:32:31 · answer #7 · answered by jaisigh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about what happens if she is pregnant. will she get an abortion? she has to think about the consequenses a baby will have for the rest of your lives
2006-10-10 16:07:35 · answer #8 · answered by Knowitall 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Always, always use birth control until you're ready to start a family.
2006-10-10 16:00:49 · answer #9 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, just hope like crazy she's not. And if she's not, get a vasectomy so you never have to go through this again.
If she is, try with all thats in you to get her to get an abortion.
2006-10-10 16:00:20 · answer #10 · answered by Phil S 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋