Is this considered cheating?

Question

If you chat on yahoo with woman with out your wife's knowledge. How about if you cam with them as well? I would never meet them in person but I like chatting and camming.

Answer 1

do you have cybersex or just chat?

Answer 2

Well, lets start by answering your question: yes, it is cheating. However, this illustrates the problem with words. Once they are defined, they exclude the possibility of finer or alternate definitions.

It is like that old story about Eskimos having several dozen words for snow. We only have a few words to describe our relations and feelings and thus, we lump up together things that maybe shouldn't and reason from there on. "Cheating" is terribly serious and hurtful and wrong whereas "klobstwestering" is really not the same thing and is just part of a healthy social life, like friendship. No one would give it a second thought and surely no one would mind if a partner "klobstwests" with people of the opposite sex.

Unfortunately, "klobstwestering" is not a word.

Answer 3

If you just like chatting and camming why haven't you told your wife. You do realize it wouldn't take much on her part to find out about it. Maybe you should spend more time chatting and camming with your wife

Answer 4

I don't think it would be cheating if it don't go any further than just chatting or camming. Now if u guys r showing way more than u r suppose 2 and trying to go out somewhere and meet than yes I considerate it cheating.

Answer 5

There is a very big difference between chatting and cheating. You can only be considerd to be cheating when you are having intimate affair with another, Chatting can lead a person to cheating coz frequent chat may tend to develop closer friendship, closer feelings until they get used to it and misses each other. Then they are drawn to each other and longing to be together. That is where they cross the line and must be stopped.

Answer 6

I've answered this kind of question before. I told the other man just what I'm about to tell you.

You are doing this in secret. So that means that you know your wife will respond negatively. THAT alone gives you the answer to your question. You really know the answer.

So now comes accepting responsibility. Continue the online thing if you want. And be willing to accept whatever consequences come from it. Because most assuredly your wife will find out. There is a saying that what is done in the dark always comes to the light. These words are true.

So.........if this online thing is worth it.........go ahead. And don't make excuses about it. But be ready when your wife finds out. And figure out now if it IS worth it. She may not find out today, tomorrow, or even this month........but in time....it will come out, and there will probably be hell to pay.

Choose wisely.

Answer 7

Uhm, it could be cheating,depending on what you are chatting about and what is going on when you're "camming". Personally, I don't see the point in doing that if you're married, you're hiding it from her so you obviously think there's something wrong w/it. Why risk ruining your marriage over women you'll never meet?

Answer 8

The guilt your feeling right now is well founded as your are in effect committing adultery, you may as well ask us, " if I hold a burning match to my chest, will I get burnt?" What do you think?
From my understanding, you feel that your not doing anything wrong. Do you talk about sex with these other women? Has the thought ever crossed your mind about sex, while talking? Do you view these other women naked? If you feel it's not wrong for you to do this, why are you hiding it from your wife? What do you think an extra-marital affair is? Isn't an affair all about secrets and lies from your true partner?
When you married your wife, did you not promise not to hurt her in any way? Do you think that your wife would be hurt if she knew about what your doing? Do you not think that you've breeched the trust issue with your wife, just by the fact that your keeping it a secret from her. And lastly, are married couples supposed to have secrets from each other?
Also do you think that by keeping it a secret from your wife that your marriage would not be threatened? And as long as you succeed in covering it up, that your not hurting your wife in any way. Come-on you know that what your doing is dangerous to your marriage, that's why you are trying your darndest to cover it up. Your not only lying to your wife, but your lying to yourself.
Do you not realize that the lie, while protecting you from your wife's anger, possibly rejection, is robbing your relationship of true and positive intimacy.
I'm sure you know the answer to your own question , duh!

Answer 9

once you're thinking, it probable is. every time you sense an emotional connection with somebody else, any style of touch that feels intimate - could be basically talking or texting, yet feels close, brings you closer to that guy or woman - is cheating. while you're no longer emotionally in touch, then those comparable issues are basically friendly. additionally i'm assuming with the aid of kissing you propose a kiss on the cheek, through fact on the mouth or deep kissing is definitely around the line.

Answer 10

Well that would all depend on what you are talking about. If there is no adult chat then no that isn't cheating. But again if that is true then why not tell your wife? Why do you have to hide it. I mean when you have to hide things it becomes something different. DISRESPECT.

Answer 11

HMM let me tell u this.plz dont take this cuz i'm a woman. no just do this and u get ur answere!!! put ur self in her sitiuation. if this is what she would have done... TALKING TO A GUY ON NET and lab lab lab.......would u have gone MAD???;o) either YES or NO and if the answere is YES!! stop it right there IF NO. then talk to ur wife about it.. and if that makes her upset then u should really stop what ur doing. cuz u have a commidment and it should stay that way sweet heart GOOD LUCK