My sons dad has 3 other kids 2 different baby mommas he isnt with any of us I talk to one of the other baby moms me and her became good friends is it ok? The dad to my baby is 22 and im 15 I caught him cheating on me in september (right before my son was born) he hasnt helped with anything should I let him see the baby?
2006-10-10 15:46:45 · 7 answers · asked by awesome_chick2009 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
Honestly, if it were me, I wouldnt let him. If hes not willing to be with you, and be a good dad, he doesnt have the right. My dad left my mom while she was pregnant, and I never met him until I was an adult. Im really glad. I think it would be harder for a child to only have their dad there SOME of the time. My best friends dad was in and out of her life whenever he felt like it, and she never knew when she would see him. It was really hard on her. When it comes to parenting, you give it your all, or nothing at all.
2006-10-10 15:53:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your a baby yourself.. Why was he not arrested for statutory rape?? He should have been! And still can be. my goodness girl don't you have any responsible adults in your life?
Sure be friends with the other kids moms. After all your kids are siblings. But as for the cheater. Take him to court and get your child support set up now!! He is 22 and 4 kids? You better get a part of the pie now. I wish they had laws on deadbeats! Like a vasectomy!
2006-10-10 23:10:50 · answer #2 · answered by kitkatish1962 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, 3 kids 2 other women besides you. What are you thinking? I guess you was surprised by all this, you being 15. Sounds like your parents should whip the crap out of you and charge him with statutory rape. Yea let him see the baby might as well screw this up as well. This is whats wrong with this country today.
2006-10-10 23:30:43 · answer #3 · answered by Josh S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with being friends with the other mothers. If anything I think that is great, that way your child can get to know his other half siblings. As for the father take him to court and have him pay child support. Till then don't allow him to see the baby. You didn't make this child alone, and you shouldn't have to struggle to get him pampers, milk, ect. alone. Have him work for what he helped create.
2006-10-10 23:19:39 · answer #4 · answered by laranita82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants to be part of the child's life and he takes good care of your child when he has him, then you should allow him to see the baby. It will be better for the child to have a father around( assuming he doesn't use drugs etc. in the presence of the baby). I assume all of your relations with him were consentual?
2006-10-10 22:53:05 · answer #5 · answered by erin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think it is fine that you two ladies have become friends your children are siblings. and for the dad yes you should let him see your son and the law could make you. if he wants to be involved that is a good thing it can give you a break every once and awhile
2006-10-10 22:51:01 · answer #6 · answered by Jess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't see anything wrong with being her friend. I wouldn't let him see the baby though.
2006-10-10 22:50:55 · answer #7 · answered by mommysrock 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋