People I am considering to ask to be my brides maids are already married or will be before my wedding. Is it okay to ask them?
2006-10-10 15:30:24 · 15 answers · asked by jbaileybabe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First it isn't tacky, I had 8 in my wedding and all but 1 was married instead we refered to them as matrons of honor. Second it doesn't matter what others think anyway this is your day and you can do whatever you want to make it the way you want it. When my cousin got married he had his mother stand up as his best man because that is what he wanted and she was the most important person in his life other than the one he was marrying. You do what makes you happy and have a great wedding day!
2006-10-10 16:03:27 · answer #1 · answered by Martha S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 04:24:42 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tacky is just an oppinion and the only oppinion that should matter is yours and his,if you want them to play that part in your wedding and you feel that they have earned the roll, why would it be tacky? Tacky would be choosing others that haven't earned that place. Remember this is my oppinion and it really shouldn't affect what you feel is right.
2006-10-10 15:43:40 · answer #3 · answered by bernice r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course. I attended a wedding over the summer that had two bridesmaids that were married. One had even had children.
2006-10-10 15:34:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutley. I think theya re then called matrons of honor. You should pick the people you want to be in your wedding regardless if they are married, sinlge, etc!
2006-10-10 15:32:57 · answer #5 · answered by shananigan26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it's not tacky. it doesn't matter if the bridesmaids are married or not, if the maid of honor is married, she is now officially the matron of honor.
2006-10-10 15:48:22 · answer #6 · answered by bmoline 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Traditionally, you should only have one bridesmaid who is married. She isn't called a bridesmaid, she's called a "Matron of Honour". But these days, you don't have to stick with tradition, I'd say anything goes.
2006-10-10 15:36:38 · answer #7 · answered by Kylie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
of course you can have married brides maids. thats just silly....
2006-10-10 15:47:25 · answer #8 · answered by BLOODHOUND 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can ABSOLTELY have bridesmaids that are married! I think the whole notion that bridesmaids are "supposed" to be single was thrown out the window decades ago. :)
2006-10-10 15:35:40 · answer #9 · answered by Kristin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I only had two and they were both married.
2006-10-10 15:35:27 · answer #10 · answered by LittleMermaid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋