We didn't break up on hard terms, we just didnt spend enough time together. He is well indowed so I like that, so since he's not sleeping w/ anyone and neither am I, why not. We still love each other. We were together 2 1/2 yrs. So we know each other really well!! I would love to hear your opinions on this topic!! Thanks!!
2006-10-10 15:26:47 · 21 answers · asked by ♥♥Mommy to 2 Divas♥♥ 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
depends on you and him and how you both think abut each other and dont worrie about what other people think
2006-10-10 15:29:40 · answer #1 · answered by cassiekennedy2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um no by doing this you are banging your head against a brick wall literally. either you are together or not. there is no grey area where this is concerned. living in the alternative reality that you do still do the physical act as a couple but aren't is like having your cake and eating it to it is a must not. you will only be emotionally strung along not being able to find anyone else and not being able to move on with you life because you are still emotionally strung on him. if you care for him that much why not talk to him about getting back together if he still refuses move on because if you don't you will miss out on a great opportunity to meet someone special.
2006-10-10 15:33:17 · answer #2 · answered by dzjoni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey take it from me i have been married for 11 years been with my wife for 12 years and along the way we have split up on and off and we dated other people but for some reason we always came and mett eachother in the middle to still sleep with eachother. but we are together now and stronger than even so just let it flow let whatever happens happen i am pretty sure the best result will come out in the end
2006-10-10 15:32:48 · answer #3 · answered by kick32625 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are headed for heartbreak. It is so unhealthy for you to be having sex with your ex. You guys are sending each other mixed messages. You have to think about the reason you guys broke up in the first place. It is better to cut all ties with that person and start the healing process and move on. Save yourself and the next time you do have sex it will be that much better.
2006-10-10 15:35:17 · answer #4 · answered by Princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEY!!! I'm doing the same thing. Except its a one sided love. But its all good I know to block my heart from actually feeling anything more. Why not sleep with your ex. I mean come on it might make things work out in the end!
2006-10-10 15:31:50 · answer #5 · answered by Brandi 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It could be a better side to working thing's out.
However you could be setting up pin's to be knocked down for disapointment.
I wouldn't get emotionally involved until I knew for sure what was going on, if your together, or not, and see how it goes from there.Nobody can tell you what to do, or what not to do, that's your own choice to make, just be careful not to get hurt =)
2006-10-10 15:30:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If both of you agree on the same term of why you are doing it than its all well, but if each one has different ideas of why they are doing it sit down together and set up everything straight.
2006-10-10 15:40:20 · answer #7 · answered by enano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, why not? If you see nothing wrong in sleeping with someone you are not in a committed relationship with, then whats the harm? I believe you deserve better, but you won't get anything better if you don't believe it too.
2006-10-10 15:30:01 · answer #8 · answered by JillA 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont... nothing is worth losing self respect. You will find someone who really cares for you and respects you as a person and it will be much better with the guy who is not using you.
2006-10-10 15:30:50 · answer #9 · answered by FirstTime 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on how you feel, we really cant answe that for you, but i can say i see this ending in heart break. once one of you finds someone else and officially ends things, the other might be hurt. what if he finds another girl and doesnt want you anymore? will you feel used? upset? sad? ask yourself these q's. if you still love him there is a huge chance of you getting hurt.
2006-10-10 15:28:38 · answer #10 · answered by 47skittles 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What are you going to do if he gets you pregnant?
He is using you when he can't score any dirty leg for anyone else.
You acting like a common S*ut and being used for someones pleasure.
2006-10-10 15:29:19 · answer #11 · answered by Eldude 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋